Now damnit, thats just completely unacceptable and she might have gotten "cussed", not cursed out!!!! Thats just ignorance and disrespect at its peak!!!
That makes alot of sense. Friends can many times overlook your strengths or even take them for granted, but enemies, foes, what have you generally remember that they can't get caught slipping around you so they stay on their game and maybe even show more respect for your abilities. just my opinion.....
Ok so its safe to say on both sides there are those that are upfront about getting theirs. But why not be upfront. All the preliminary ish is pointless. If you already know what you want out of a situation, why make it prettier or make it out to be more than it really is? And truth be told, I know alot of males that will turn females down. I for one have.
And how do you figure that? You would pretty much have to be a man to completely know what a man thinks. And no, everyman doesn't think about sex all the time anymore than most females think about it. I have 3 older sisters, and they're just as upfront about gettin theirs as most males are about theirs. Hel we get looked at ats dogs, hungry niggas, and every other name that females can think of, so whats the difference? And me being a man does not automatically determine what I think. My brain is in my head, not in my dick.
CJ,
You speakin the truth. But that real comes out when it comes time for alot of them to jump through those same hoops that they wanted to see someone else do, and they cant cut it. Then you see the true colors come out. And hell nah we shouldn't and don't have to put up with that bs, shit sometimes you gotta tell shorty to keep it movin.
I say just do what you do because like or love it, eventually those that hold those double standards will either deal with it, or step away from you.. so in short, "get yours"
I agree that society does often hold women to a double standard when it comes to sexual prowess but many women also hold themselves to that double standard. And most of the time its because you let someone hold you to a double standard that it lingers on.
That is mad one-sided. I mean if the man makes more he gives half but if she does, she keeps all? How much sense does that make? Thats pretty much a double standard. And what if the man takes the kids and she makes more, is he s.o.l?
