I think that I am at the point in my life that I am just about ready to get married. The relationship that I am in now is kind of hard because it is long distance but the both of us care about each other. We are in this relationship to make it perminent. AS of right now I feel like he is the one there is no one else that I would rather be with. To be in a relationship it takes time and patience. You have to be mature anough to deal with certain situations and to be able to talk about them openly. Once you meet that true love in your life and realize that there is no one esle that you rather be with, than you should be willing and ready to get married to them.
Your Dominant Intelligence is Spatial Intelligence
You've got a good sense of space and how the world around you looks.
You can close your eyes and "see" images. You have innate artistic talent.
An eye for color and shapes, you're also a natural designer.
Since you think in pictures, visual aids and demonstartions help you learn best.
You would make a good navigator, sculptor, visual artist, inventor, architect, interior designer, or engineer.
THis is so true for the most part, that is whymy major is Computer graphics and Design and I want to be a visual specialist.
I think today in society more and more people are sexually active, yes I do think that some things in the media effects the views of men and women as far as relationships. What do you see on video, you see things on sex, lust and other things. The media is going to advertise things that they feel is in or catchy. Many women and Men are sexual promiscuity and one reason is because they see that there many women and men out here willing to give them what they want so they go there. I think the people cheat or keep relationships open is because they are being greedy instead of being with one person they rather be with many. I feel like I don't need to go out and try out sex with other guys because to me sex is special when you have sex with someone you become one with them. It is something sacrade a bond shared between a man and women so when I do it with anyone I have to know I love them. It is a serious thing that is why it can cause so much heart head unless your just doing it to do it. As a christian I am saving myself and I don't have to test the waters because when the time is right God will give me that right person and will be great.
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.
The Keys tou your heart:
In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored.
You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.
You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.
Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage something you've always wanted... though you haven't really thought about it.
In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily.
I think that women do mature faster than guys. In some cases though there are guys that are young but are very mature for their age, I guess it just depends. I have found that to be true because I am mature for my age and normally I am attracted to guys that are a few years older. I am 22 and I can talk to a guy that is 26 or older and in some cases he will be on my level. So most of the time it is true. Just like some females act younger than there age so do males.
I am just light brownskinned with a golden complexion. The most I get asked is am I from an Island. I guess because of my complexion and features. I also get told it looks like I have Indian in me. The great thing about black women is we are all unique and different that is what makes us so special.
As a strong black Independent women myself I truly understand how tough it is out here to be a strong black women. I did not have a father figure in the home so I learned how to rely on myself and God to get me where I am today. I agree with the author on some aspects but it is not always on us women. Truly it is nothing wrong with being ambitious and striving and saying you don't need a man to carry you through. Women have gotten hurt so many times that the one thing that they know they can accomplish is there goals and dreams even if a man does not come there way. Yes, some women are to independent and there ambitions may run men away because they are just to into themselves but on the other side; there are some women that are ambitious and do pray every day for that right man to come along and they are willing to give a bit of themselves to there mate. As women though, I can say after working hard to become something great I would not want to give it up for anything. No good man should expect you to. Times has changed and with everything else to make a relationship work that requires both parties not just one person giving all to much and the other sitting there all high and mighty. If you are with the right man he should want the best for you and you should want the same too. Sometimes I wounder if the right guy will come alone but I know that God will give me that right guy when it is time and he will respect my Independence and love me for it, because that is what true love is all about. Black men should Love Black women for there strongness because it was a women that had them. Being married does mean to summit to a certain astint but it does not mean to give up everything you stand for and sit back and wither up no, to have a happy home both parties must be happy. If a women decides to give alot of themselves than so be it.
Well my advice on the situation is to be carefull. It is true that some times when friends become something more it works out but sometimes it does not. I have had friends that wanted to be more and because It didn't we did not really stay friends. Sometimes it can work out but some times the place where you use to be gets messed up. All I can say is be careful.
The important things that I look for in a guy when I first meet him is:
whether he is confident but not cocky
If he is a christian
If he is sweet, Honest, and sincere
He has to come at me with respect and based on his approach is how I know what he is about.
I look at how respectful he is, how well grounded he is too.
Appearance does make a difference if he is clean cut than I can tell he likes to take care of himself.
If he asks me certain questions when meets me than I can tell he is somewhat interested in me and who I am as a person.
I also look at how outgoing he is. THis can also help me to figure out how ambitious he is.
If he talks to me with ease and is not trying to show off that lets me know he is real and he is secure anough to be himself.
Alot of times when I check out a guy I do it on the low. I try not to get cought but sometimes I do. It is funny to because it feels strange. Normally if I see a guy checking me out and he then starts to check me out I will give a smile and leave it on him to make his move, if he doesn't I keep on moving. :grin: