Interesting concept :
you know how there is a such thing as "dog years". well, perhaps there is a such thing as "boy years". although a guy may be 25, take away 10 years, and he's really 15 in boy years. perhaps that why some grown men are so stupid.
Of course I 'm not talking about any fellas on this site--just venting , but what do ya'll think?
I know sometimes I drop off hiints just because I don't know if the guy really wants to chill with me or not at that time.
being “passive” is simply easier, less obligations. u put the ball in their court, and u don’t face rejection or taxing decisions.
i’m passive cuz I like to kno how a guy feels, or where he's at, before I “put myself out there“. plus, i just like being pursued by guys--it feels good to know that someone wants you and is willing to put forth effort. it actually annoys me to see girls that are real assertive, all up in nigs’ faces…I’m too cool for that , lol. naw, i guess i was just brought up on the idea that it’s the man's job to be on pursuit, like demmeri mentioned earlier.
you better go to the dayum school that's giving you the most dayum money! [/img]
that's how i ended up @ morgan. i was in the same boat as u, UMCP was my dream school. i worked my butt off in high school to get in and i did -- into their scholars program even-- but they gave me hardly any money. morgan offered me pretty much a full ride, and i took it cuz like u, i wanna go to med school or some other pre-professional school, which costs lots of money. i'll probably have to take out loans then, so y graduate from undergrad wit all kinds of debt b4 i even get there?
the way i look @ it is, its not so much what school u go to, but what u do while ur there, and how u use what u got