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Why do Guys LIE about What they Want in a Relationship?? Posted on 07-29-2008
sabrinaashields17

Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
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07-29-2008 01:27PM [Reply]
cutie4life
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sabrinaashields17 wrote:
Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
I think guys lie about that kinda stuff because guys are scared to be tied down..guys will tell u anything to get us females of their back..lol..I mean everytime I bring up kids and marriage with my boyfriend now...he acts like he dont hear me or trys to change the topic..

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07-29-2008 01:37PM [Reply]

C Nels
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Some men are just afraid of commitment. Like Stacey said, some guys will tell you any and everything you want to hear in order to get what they want. Unfortunately once they get it, they're gone! Don't worry about his boys saying that you have him on a leash because most of the time they're just one phone call away from being on a leash too! lol Age can also be a major factor in commitment also. If you're talking marriage to a 16/17 year old guy, they're more than likely not trying to settle down any time soon. Enjoy life for a minute and then think about settling down....that's for males and females. Some females think they're ready for marriage but really aren't. Your life changes after marriage!

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07-29-2008 01:40PM [Reply]
cutie4life
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^^^^^Off topic...how do u know my name?...on topic..a lot of my older friends said when they got married..things got better..like they had more trust in each other and understood each other..but I mean..I talk about marriage now..but I dont plan on gettin married until I'm 30 or 31

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07-29-2008 01:52PM [Reply]

C Nels
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Because you've posted it in the forums a number of times. 30 or 31? Plan to have any kids?

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07-29-2008 01:54PM [Reply]
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Marriage isn't something to rush into. I don't wanna be married until I'm at least 27. I got **** to do.

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07-29-2008 01:56PM [Reply]
cutie4life
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^^^Oh yeah..sorry I had a slow moment..lol..but I want to get married at 30 or 31 because I will be finished with all of my college work..I wanna become a doctor..and I have to go to school for like 8 yrs and then do residency(sp) for 2 to 3 yrs...I just wanna be stable when I bring kids into the world..

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07-29-2008 01:59PM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17

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Yeah, Im NOt Planning on it any time soon But I just needed Sum answers!! Its Not like I call Him every 5 minutes and Stuff when we were not together Its AlWays the main GUYS OF HIS WHO DONT HAVE A GURL THAT ARE ALWAYS TELL'n His Stuff like that!! LOSERSSS!!

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07-29-2008 02:01PM [Reply]
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kennini wrote:
Marriage isn't something to rush into. I don't wanna be married until I'm at least 27. I got **** to do.
lol....she a gangsta girl i swear

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07-29-2008 02:18PM [Reply]
kennini

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xosugababeox@yahoo.com wrote:
lol....she a gangsta girl i swear
Lol. Naah.

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