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Why do Guys LIE about What they Want in a Relationship?? Posted on 07-29-2008
sabrinaashields17

Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
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cutie4life replied on 07-29-2008 02:18PM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17 wrote:
I AM WITH U ON THAT 1 BCuz Half the Gurls THat go to my school are Now Having KIDS Bcuz thats what there Dude Told Them!! Why they would want mess up their Lives Like that IDK??? Then on top of that The Guys are Not Cute and Have No GOALS Thats why Im Not dating at my School!!!
I wish a dude would tell me..when to have kids..he would get knocked upside his head..and I be damned if I dated a dude with no goals..I mean come on now..a guy with no goals..what is he going to do for me..lol..
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TSUblueTiger replied on 07-29-2008 02:24PM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17 wrote:
Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
I am not sure why we are sometimes not honest. Donít base your judgment on what you hear. Base your judgment on what you see. Therefore, if his actions align with his words, you should believe it. As far as the friends, donít worry about them. If they are his friends, they will respect his lady. Just keep working to improve your relationship with your boyfriend. I am sure everything will be ok.
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sabrinaashields17 replied on 07-29-2008 02:24PM [Reply]
EXaCLY, MAMI THERE JUST A BUCH OF CHICAS MUDO CON ningķn CEREBRO!!! (DUMB GURLS WITH NO BRAIN!!!) LOLZ
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sabrinaashields17 replied on 07-29-2008 02:29PM [Reply]
TSUblueTiger wrote:
I am not sure why we are sometimes not honest. Donít base your judgment on what you hear. Base your judgment on what you see. Therefore, if his actions align with his words, you should believe it. As far as the friends, donít worry about them. If they are his friends, they will respect his lady. Just keep working to improve your relationship with your boyfriend. I am sure everything will be ok.
YEAH Im NOT WOORRRIED ABout his Friends To say the least.. I JUST Call that BarberShop talk Thats All LOLZ
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keishaberry88 replied on 07-30-2008 12:43PM [Reply]
cutie4life wrote:
I wish a dude would tell me..when to have kids..he would get knocked upside his head..and I be damned if I dated a dude with no goals..I mean come on now..a guy with no goals..what is he going to do for me..lol..
i definately agree with you on this one. i have a little one and no one forced me to have him. i chose to and i let my man know that if he wants to stay around he has to stay on his stuff or else i'm gone.
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sabrinaashields17 replied on 07-30-2008 04:35PM [Reply]
Thanks to all who replyed to this
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C Nels replied on 07-30-2008 04:37PM [Reply]
De nada
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sabrinaashields17 replied on 07-30-2008 04:51PM [Reply]
Great Job!!
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sabrinaashields17 replied on 07-30-2008 06:50PM [Reply]
TO ALL OF MY CHICAS AND CHICOS THERES A PART 2 Coming Soon!! )
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NeoSoulBrotha replied on 07-31-2008 11:35AM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17 wrote:
Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
Sometimes they don't know what they want. If a dude doesn't know you that well (and you can't get to know someone well in a few weeks), he honestly doesn't know yet if you will be someone he wants to spend his life with. Other possibilities... he is interested in you, and doesn't want to scare you off so he says what he thinks you want to hear. Or, he may have an agenda. But for those types, you'll probably recognize that up front.
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