I ALWAYS hear girls saying that they have more guy friends than girls. Everytime I hear it, I can't help but to think, (even 4 a split second) that she's giving it up to alot of guys,etc. Why do girls not have closer relationships with their own gender? more importantly, why do we want to know that you have more males in your life than females??
It is like this, I feel that it is nothing wrong with having more male friends than female if you choose to do that than that is your choice. Just because a person says they have more male friends than females does not mean they do not like talking to females as a whole it's just means they get along more. Like I said I personally have more male friends and I just get along with them more but I also have my circle of female friends too. In many cases though for what ever reason sometimes it is harder to talk to some females because in reality they do change up on you. All I know is every person is different and we experience different things and it doesn't mean that something is wrong with a person just because they choose to talk to guys more than girls.
I chose to hang out with guys because no matter how close you are to a female they still see you as competition. They don't seem to understand that I don't want they man, What they wearing is cool for them but I don't want to steal they style and that a friend that would gossip about them behind they back ain't a real friend. Guys kinda accept things at face value and keep movin'. I've never been with a group of guys and they start talkin' about some "nicca I can't stand yo fake self. you really think you fine or somethin'?" Guys be like "You wanna hang. A'ight that's cool." That stuff start from when you little. All the cliques and mess. Girls be like "You can't be my friend and her friend at the same time." Guys be tryin' to find more people so they can football or something. It's just less complicated with guys.
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I... you can usually tell who's real and who's not after a couple of conversations. In my experiences, it's kind of hard to get hurt by a female...
I pretty much agree, surround urself w/ females u can trust n there won't be ne problems...if u around 'shady' females, don't be surprised when u get burnt, you already knew what was go'n down. Personally I have more girl friends than guy friends b/c I relate to them on a different level, I have two really close best-guy-friends, n all them other ni99as is just associates...but my GURLS??!!...who else i'ma hit tha club wit??...we roll deep!!!
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DID YOU KNOW THAT A NAME OF A CD, I'M JUST ASK'N CUZ ITS KIND OF UNKNOWN, MAINLY POPULAR N HOUSTON & DALLAS? DID U JUST USE THIS PHRASE ON UR OWN OR DID U GET IT 4RM THAT CD? IF YOU DID NOT 2 BE START'N NO NEW TOPIC BUT WHAT YOU THINK OF THAT CD, CUZ IT WAS PUT OUT BY MY SISTER'S BOYFRIEND LABEL?? JUST CURIOUS...HE ALWAYS LOOK'N FOR NEW OPINIONS...
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_______________________________ "I am the one you denied
Brushed me off everytime tried
But im alright
I'm able to swallow my pride
N just put all the bullshit to the side
If u ready to ride
Im down for a one night stand
Gotta accept it any way that i can
Cuz i aint yo man
i'll try for whatever its worth
Just remember who played who first"
-LLoyd Banks, Karma
4 me personally Girls talk 2 much!!! My level of trust is kinda low with them... i can bearly trust myself!!! :roll: but guys are different... sometimes they really don't care so they won't tell ur business unless it has 2 do with somebody fuckin somebody else! lol but um... they're alot funnier 2 chill with... my gender is a lil uptight every now and then. I guess its my "i don't care attitude" the reason why i have a lot of guys as friends... females are 2 prissy 4 me (even though i'm one!) Jus live life 2 the fullest and who cares what gender ur friends are!?!?
All of the responses are interesting.
I just wonder, somewhat like what Kenyafeelme was sayin, since females generally carry these characteristics, would you agree or admit that you have at times shown these same negative qualities? I have heard females say things like "I don't like females because they are shady." And then turn around sayin things like "I know that I was shady towards her" or "I know how I am with other females and they are probably the same way about me."
And if you feel you don't carry these characteristics, do you feel that you attract friends that are the same as you? Or do you still think that you may end up with female friends that have the typical problems?
Cuz Bitches excuse me FEMALEs are drama attracted and who doesn't want to hear the opinion of the opposite sex i mean look at this forum!
Are YOU drama attracted?
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Thankz for the sig Nate. Kitty kissez to ya!
