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For Poorer or for Richer (Im sickened by this...) Posted on 10-27-2004
Wisdom_Tree

What does a man want? What does a woman want? There are alot of answers based upon the field of study, but Im just going to drop into the financial part real quick. Two adults, roughly 21 years old, trying to get through life....The girl has a job and goes to school and the guy is struggling. By struggling I mean he doesnt have a job and he cant get the loans for school. I was talking with my dad about this today...say the guy is a really good guy...I mean, he treats his women well when he has money and he never cheats, very thoughtful and a great companion. He's just going through a hard time and he wants someone not only to help him through financially but to help his spirit up. All that MAN wants is for a woman to love him for who he is and not what he is worth (or the situation he is in). A WOMAN, however, "Wants to feel secure". That means she wants to know where her man is, trust in him and have him trust in her, have him BE ABLE to take care of her if she gets in a rut (key line) and...well he cant be no punk *** either. Anyways, the story goes like this... The woman meets the man right when he needs her most, at his low point, and doesnt give him the time of day. Then, when he gets a good job and gets back in school, she suddenly wants to talk to him. I told my dad that I wouldnt talk to a girl if she wouldnt have me when Im poor and broke because I wouldnt stay that way for long. She should care for me for just being me and loving her instead of worrying that I cant get her the newest LV or Prada. It SICKENS me to my stomach to hear women say there arent any good men around. Some of us cant afford to be a "Good man" in their eyes. (not applying to me, but it pisses me off just the same) Questions and comments please... :arrow:
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Kinkee replied on 10-27-2004 08:55PM [Reply]
I feel everything you saying. Some women just need to open their eyes and see reality. That was dirty how she did him.
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jadekiss replied on 10-27-2004 10:37PM [Reply]
:lol: :lol: Okay..first of all...youz a dumbass for this: Peter piper picked a peck of pickled peppers....f*ck a woodchuck, he sells sea shells by the sea shore, surely... I understand a woman wanting to feel secure and everything, but if she's on her J-O (and yes, this is the age of the Independent Woman) she should give him a chance. Everybody goe thru bad times. At one point she may go thru a bad time and because of that should she be denied? NO. Now yes as a woman I want to feel secure when I'm with a man, but I can handle my own security. That's why I'm going be in school forever and a day, so I don't have to depend on anybody for anything! Now marriage is a whole nother thing. You can marry into debt and that's not a good thing.. There are a lot of good men around. IT has NOTHING to do with their financial status...to me anyways. A girl like me...I don't need alot of materialistic things. That's just not me. Its the nuccas out here who can't even do the damn basics that get classified as no good men (women don't be acting of the get right either)
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Enigma2k8 replied on 10-27-2004 10:40PM [Reply]
That 1st vote is mine :arrow:
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King_J replied on 10-27-2004 11:15PM [Reply]
Pouvoir wrote:
That 1st vote is mine :arrow:
Cosign :arrow:
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replied on 10-27-2004 11:17PM [Reply]
If she ain't like my personality when I was broke, she sure as hell ain't gonna like it when Im rich. Old gurl would definately only be after my cash. Definately voted the 1st answer
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PrinceMannyX replied on 10-28-2004 08:26AM [Reply]
Hotep, I don't date girls that aren't on my level!!! I not talking about being BROKE but everything. I do say that if a girl can't talk with me while I am driving my GEO then she'll never drive with me. Prince... Betty is to GOOD TO ME (GEO PRISM)
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Princess LaRonda replied on 10-28-2004 09:55AM [Reply]
if i see an effort.......a VISIBLE effort that he's trying im all for it...but if not catch you later
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Wisdom_Tree replied on 10-28-2004 08:32PM [Reply]
Im waiting for the dissenters...cuz Im so anxious to hear an excuse for treating a good guy poorly (Ex., Just today I got an IM from a random AUC chick that wanted to know what I did to get into Morehouse...if I was rich or something...and then she asked me how much my writing contract was worth. I told her I wasnt worth a red cent and Im barely making it but im trying hard and she called me a "F*cking lame, scrub n*gga". Then of course I told her about what I had and she was like "You cant take a joke?" Mmmm, I think I can almost taste the bullsh*t...) :arrow: (yeah, I like my polls how I like my women...precise, but a little off. :twisted: )
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MustBNice334 from Atlanta, GA by way of Montgomery..aka..G, AL replied on 10-29-2004 12:47AM [Reply]

I feel ya brother.....if she ain't willin to be there through the grime....she sure is hell ain't finna be with me when I shine. Ol' gold-diggin azzez
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