Fire in the Belly written by Sam Keen. It states 99.9% of men are boys because they were never taught how to be men. All we do and have been taught to do is to get the girl. Once we get here, we dont know how to handle. I have noticed a new trend where most of the females are playing the dog game. It has been some yrs since that book was written. Deep book about manhood and ancestral lack of heritage. Deep.