I know that we have all heard females everywhere complain, or "give reasons" for the fact that they are single. The common theme that I find, especially in college, is that most of the females who have excuses/reasons for being single usually blame the men that they have met and have been surrounded by for the fact that they are single. Most of them will never admit their downfalls, and always have a reason for anything somebody may use to knock them.
So my question to you all...could you honestly admit that there may be some reasons to why you are single? Whether it's your personality, looks, or anything else you feel could be wrong with you, but WITHOUT flippin the script. Meaning..."I admit it's because I'm usually not in a good mood....but I'm only like that because the dudes make me mad all the time" is not a valid reason.
well Im single because I live in CT and its not alot of attractive guys where I live who arent hoes.... but besides that when I do meet a few nice ones, my faults are:
*Im a big flirt
I guess those are some turn offs on my part, but Im not even looking for anything serious
it may be my fault... i'm starting to think my standards for a guy are too high... cause I don't base them on my past relationships or noting like that. i base them my bestfriends that are MEN... they like brothers to me so i could never be with them however if I ever find a guy even close to being like them I will most likely come out of my shy mode....hopefully
_______________________________ "Just like a body without a spirit is dead, faith without works is dead" James 2:26
Hell honestly don't know, so Imma just spit some stuff out. I always tend to be someone's lil sister, so hey what can I say. I don't know what to say, so I just say I don't know, or maybe Im just not attractive to guys. I don't know.
I'm single because I choose to be. I was in a relationship for almost year, and it wasn't with the right guy. I haven't been single for a LONG time so right now I just want to fly solo
_______________________________ All Things are working for me
even things I cant see
Your ways are so beyond me
and You said that you would, let it be for my good
so I'll rest and just believe! "All Things are Working"-Fred Hammond
Im single because........... I honestly dont kno, maybe because i not really lookin for anything serious right now. But i do think i'm a lil possesive, a flirt and like alot of attention but who doesnt?? I've only had two serious relationships. After coming out of an abusive relationship, i find it hard to take niggas (not men) serious. Being single right now for me is ok. eventually i would like to find someone special.
Hmmm...I'm single because the love of my life and I have been off/on for 4 years...and though we're currently OFF...i'm afraid that as soon as I start dating someone else...he'll be back in my face trying to be ON again. So I haven't had any other boyfriends (during our off periods) since I was 17...I'm 21 now! Sad story I know, but I'm gonna try and change that this year...SINGLE and LOOKING!!!