I don't expect alot of response to your question:
1) It's a sensitive subject.
2) Some my find it offensive
3) no one wants to put themselves out there
Since I don't particularly care I can give an answer to this question based off what me and someof mygirlfriends talk about.
A female may not perform Oral sex on a guy because of various reasons so here are a few:
1) The though of putting that in you r mouth is a big turnoff.
2) You don't want to gag, and then the guy gets upset because your not
doing it right.
3) You don't really trust you man, so why take the risk of giving him head when he could be messing around.
4) Oral sex is better without a condom therefore you open to all type of STD's if the guy don't where one and if you wear the flavored condoms it doesn't taste right.
5) You no longer a virgin, so you prefer to wait for marriage so that's one thing that only your husband has ever gotten and nobody else.
This is really just a few reasons I have heard, Some may apply ot some people, some may not. Either way I thought your question needed and answer because it's valid, don't like the choice of words but I repect your honesty!!!
Excuse the Typos didn't feel like :grin
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I think some girls don't give head because like the other sister said there are std's out here that they don't want to risk getting. It is very risky out here now at days seeing how many brothers are being lose and just banging anything that walks.
She may not trust him for what ever reason. If he is the type that cheats then why would she want to put his dick in her mouth when he could have vaginal fluids on it from a previous sexual experience he had prior to him wanting to get with her .
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5) You no longer a virgin, so you prefer to wait for marriage so that's one thing that only your husband has ever gotten and nobody else.
Thaz mainly my reason...some argue that when u give head, ur still a virgin...ur a technical one...but in my eyes you are not...I'm not ashamed to say, my future husband is gettin it...nobody else...
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