Hmmmm..............thats ok. I'm tired of hearing about how Black men think that their plight is so bad and that Black women are this and that. Find you someone who is made for you and stop trying to get the girl your boys think is the bomb or who you think you can have good sex with. Then come back and talk to me. Rant over.
_______________________________ Miss Christian Youth Fellowship
Morehouse College 2005
^^^ WOW not all BLACK MEN ARE LIKE THAT
IN this country USA U HAVE TO SUPPORT AND HELP THE BLACK MAN HIM VICE VERSA OF THE BLACK WOMAN THOUGH 37 years ago we were intergratedand got a little something doesnt mean that things havent changed for other things. BLACKS NEED TO UNDERSTAND WHO THEY ARE BOTH MEN ADN WOMEN WHYARE YOU BLACK? WHERE DO YOU COME FROM? HOW DID U GET HERe? WAHT IS YOUR ROLE? WOMEN BACK THE NAND SOME NOW (my mother) SUPPORT AND HELP THE BLACK MAN U HAD TO ALL THEY HAD WAS EACH OTHER AND BELIEVE IT OR NOT WE HAVE A COME A LONG WAY BUT STILL TO A POINT THATS ALL WE HAVE IS EACH OTHER YET WE ARE SOO JUDGEMENTAL OF EACH OTHER AND JEALOUS WE ARE TAUGHT TO HATE OURSELVESA ND OTHERS LIKE US? NOT ME I REFUSE TO BELEIVE THAT HYPE.
PEOPLE SAY BLACKS HAVE THE SAME CHANCES AS ANYBODY ELSE
THINK ABOUT THAT WHO RUNS MOST OF THIS USA SHIT? THE BLACK MAN AND WOMAN ARE ENVIED BECaUSE OF OUR UNIQUENESS AND BEAUTY AND OUR ORIGINALITY. STRAIGHT UP HATAZ IN MY OPINION and THE BLACK MANS plight is DOES STILL EXIST IN SOME CASES BUT NOT ALL SOMETHING THEY DONT HAVE ANY CONTROL OVER LIKE A BLACK WOMAN HAVING ALL THE DEGREES AND REQUIREMENTS FOR A POSTITION BUT bECAUSE SHE HAS DREDZ OR A FRO SHE MIGHT NOT GET THE POSITION THATS A PLIGHT THATS NOT RIGHT. BLACK MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO COMMUNICATE AND COME TO AN UNDERStANDING OF THINGS AND EACH OTHER.
BLACK MEN MAKING EXCUSES ABOUT NOT SOMETHING HAPPENING BECAUSE THEIR COLOR DEPENDING ON THIER SITUATION I BELIEVE IT SOME HAVE THE REQUIREMENTS JUST ARENT HIRED WHY IS THAT? IT HAS TO BE A REASON? THE SKIN DUH
BUT SOME MEN KNOW THEY CAN DO BETTER AS WELL AS WOMEN ITS BALANCE THING MEN AND WOMEN.
WELL I THINK BLACK WOMEN AND BLACK MEN NEED TO LOOK BACK AT THE OLDER COUPLES IN THE FAMILY WHO ARE STILL TOGETHER WHO HAVE TOGETHER RAISED FAMILIES AND SEE WHAT IT TOOK AND THE ROELS THEY PLAYED. wHY IN SLAVERY BLAACK MEN AND WOMEN WERE LIKE THE HOMOSEXUALZ IN SOME STATES COULDNT GET A LEGAL MARRIAGE THEY JUMPED OVER A BROOM OR BROKE A GLASS ON THE GROUND? IT HAS A LOT TO DO WITH HISTORY AND THE BLACK MEN AND WOMEN LOOSING THEIR OVER ALL INTENTIONS OF THE BLACK FAMALIES.
I FOR ONE DO NOT BELIEVE IN DIVORCE THERE IS NO REASON TO GET A DIVORCE I DONT BELIEVE IN THEM. BLACK MAN AND BLACK WOMAN ARE SOO CONFUSED ABOUT EACH OTHER THAT IT CAUSES CHAOS BETWEEN THE TWO. THE BLACK MAN AND BLACK WOMAN NEED TO HAVE COMMUNICATION AND TO SEE EACH OTHERS SIDES.
I THINK THE MOVIE WILL BE ALL RIGHT FOR BLACK MEN BECAUSE THEY MIGHT OR MIGHT CANT RELATE TO IT. WOMEN TO EXHALE IM SORRY I DIDNT LIKE THAT MOVIE AL LTHAT WELL I THINK THOSE WOMEN WENT ABOUT DOING THINGS THE WRONG WAY. COUPLES PEOPLE PERIOD NEED COMMUNICATION AND UNDERSTANDING OF ONE ANOTHER AND LESS CHAOS FORREAL. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR AL LTHE CONFUSION AND DRAMA U GOT TO MOVE TO tRAFFIC SLOW AND STeADY U KNO.
BLACK WOMEN NEED TO STOP PUTTING DOWN THE BLACK MA NAND LIFTING HIM UP SUPPORT NO MATTER WHAT NO ONE IS PERFECT AND BLACK MEN COULD STOP DOWNING THE BLACK WOMAN BY CALLINGHER ALL TYPES OF NAMES AND JUST BEING CRUEL NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN DO THIS NOT AL LBLACK MEN DO THIS. JUST THE ONES THAT ARE DOING IT. MORE LOVE LESS FIGHTING A LOT MORE COULD BE DONE AND PROGRESS IN THE BLACK RACE.
BLACK MEN BLACK WOMEN ARE ONLY HUMAN NO MAN IS PERFECT. BUT THEY DONT HAVE TO BE REMINDED THAT THEY ARENT U KNO LIKE THAT INFURIATES MAN THAT HE MESSES uP. MAN IM SPEAKING MAN AND WOMAN U KNO. ALL IS NEEDED IS COMMUNICATION AND UNDERSTANDING AND LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN TO EACH OTHER STOP ASSUMING OR JUMPING DOWN EACH OTHER WITHO UT GETTING THE WHOLE STORY MOVE SLOW COMMUNICATE AND LOVE AND IT WILL MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE. MY MOTHER AND FATHER HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 38 ALMOST 39 YEARS six children and I cAn Recall them arguinga few times but THEY ALWAYS WORK IT OUT! I was taught to communicate and defend if physically threatened u kno. I think a lot more problems could be resolved if people talk out whats up or listen and try to understand.
AND TO THE ABOVE COMMENT ^^^ I DONT THINK EVERY MAN IS ABOUT SEXING THAT SEXIEST WOMAN EVER! NOT ALL MEN THINK THE SAME ON CERTAIN THINGS THEY MAKE THINK SIMILAR BUT NOT THE SAME ONE GUY CA NSA SHE LOOK GOOD OR ONE CAN SAY SHE AIGHT U KNOW EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. THAT GOES WITH UNDERSTANDING OF THE MALE AND VICE VERSA OF THE FEMALE NOT EVERY CHIC IS SCANDALOUS AND A GOLD DIGGER OR A WHORE OR OUT TO GET U OR WAHTEVER ELSE U THINK OF THE FEMALE. EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT SOME MAY OR MAY NOT bE AGAIN COMMUNICATE TO FIND OUT. IF U DONT ASK OR TALK ABOUT IT HOW U GONE KNOW? U KNO
IM SORRY IF ITS HELL LONG I JUST HAD A LOT TO SAY ON THAt
SORRY IF I OFFENDED ANYONE ON THAT IM JUST SAYING AN OPINION
I SUPPORT MY BLACK MEN IN HIS MOVIE AND MAYBE THAT WILL GIVE US A SENSE OF A MALES PERSPECtIVE ON THINGS WOMEN DO IT AL LTHE TIME MEN cAN DO THE SAME COMMUNICATION AND LOVE IS THAT ALL
Im like NAsty NAs on illmatic track 9 I represent represent VA all day!
_______________________________ CLARK ATLANTA UNIVERSITY FRESHMEN FALL 06'
he will never leave you nor forsake the bible
sleep is the cousin of death Nasir Jones
Im like Nasty NAs I represent represent VA all day!
people fear what they don't understand and hate what they can't conquer Ruyard Kippling
take it one step at a time
move to the flow of traffic
black brilliant leader americas creators kings from begining to end thats me buty
life is a test brand nubian
^^Please point out where I said all Black men are like that? I never made that statement. I think that as Black men we need to stop acting like bulls......always going back and forth butting heads with one another. Yes some men are tired but that is because they CHOSE a rowdy woman to tire them out. Some Black men decided to be with that loud ghetto girl then have the nerve to wonder why things did not work out. Some Black men CHOOSE to come home and fight instead of saying "look baby I'm not gonna continue to fight with you like this. Either we sit down and work this out like adult and work this out or we cant work out" or the ever unpopular "OK baby. ITS NOT THAT BIG A DEAL. We'll do it your way this time". (Hard, right?)
I mean the mark of an adult is common sense which people seem to loose when getting into some of the relationships that they choose to get into.
Personally I refuse to stay in this struggle over the white woman for Black men. If I find me a nice white man to be with for the rest of my life thats fine with me.
_______________________________ Miss Christian Youth Fellowship
Morehouse College 2005
^^ WELL THATS YOU
I FOR ONE WILL NEVER PUT MY BLACK MAN SECOND TO NONE! NEVA!
YOU RIGHT THE MEN CHOOSE TO BE I WITH THAT GHETTO LOUD GIRL REGUARDLESS OF HOW THE WOMAN IS
THERE STILL NEED TO BE UNDERSTANDING LOVE AND COMMUNICATION AND SHE LOUD WHY? SHE ACT A FOOL WHY? HOW HE DONT KNOW IF DOESNT COMMUNICATE?
EVERYONE GOT ISSUES AND PROBLEMS BUT HOW YOU GONE SOLVE EM IF U DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE?
IF THEIR WERE COMMUNICATION IN A RELATIONSHIP IT WOULDNT OF WENT DOWN LIKE THAT CUZ THAT WOMAN ALREADY KNOWS WHERE THAT MAN STANDS. VICE OF VERSA
I UNDESTAND WHAT U SAYING ABOUT SOME BLACK MEN JUST BEING IDIOTS FOR NO REASON BUT U HAVE TO WORK WITH THAT THEY WASNT ALWAYS LIKE THAT TRY TO FIND OUT WHY
YOU JUST CANT GIVE UP ON A MAN.
YOU SAID U WOULD GET A WHITE MAN OKAY THATS WHAT U WOULD CHOOSE TO DO. I JUST REFUSE TO GIVE UP ON LOVE OR SOMEONE I CAREABOUT BECAUSE OF THEIR ISSUES I WOULD WORK WORK THEM TO RESOLVE THEM.
PATIENT AND UNDERSTANDING AGAIN WHY RUSH? TIME IS FAST ENOUGH U KNOW
I THINK THAT THE BLACK MAN DESERVES A GOOD BLACK WOMAN I AM A GOOD BLACK WOMAN. BLACK WOMEN DESERVE A GOOD BLAcK MAN BUT NOT EVERYONE SHOWS GOOD. SOMETIMES WE GET THE SIDES OF PEOPLE WE DONT EVEN LIKE BUT FOR CERTAIN REASONS WE IGNORE IT.
UNDERSTANDING AND COMMUNICATING PATIENT AND LOVE AND IT WILL BE ALL GOOD! THATS WHAT I BELEIVE
JUST GIVING UP AND IGNORING OR JUST ASSUMING AND JUMPING ALL OVA EACH OTHA WONT SOLVE NOTHING.
ITS NOT THAT SERIOUS IF U STAY POSITIVE
_______________________________ CLARK ATLANTA UNIVERSITY FRESHMEN FALL 06'
he will never leave you nor forsake the bible
sleep is the cousin of death Nasir Jones
Im like Nasty NAs I represent represent VA all day!
people fear what they don't understand and hate what they can't conquer Ruyard Kippling
take it one step at a time
move to the flow of traffic
black brilliant leader americas creators kings from begining to end thats me buty
life is a test brand nubian
All I'm saying is people get into these relationships that were not meant to be. Whether my future husband is Black or White I dont know. Nor do I care. I wont fight over a man just because he is Black. If it is meant to be it will work out. I'm not gonna act a fool over it. I think that was a part of the point the man in the movie was trying to make.
_______________________________ Miss Christian Youth Fellowship
Morehouse College 2005
I can see the reason for making such a movie, however I do not know that it is needed, considering Tyler Perry's "Diary of Mad Black Woman" said enough for both genders. It wasn't just about her being done wrong. She did the good brotha wrong as well. To me, it was more accurate than "Diary of a Tired Black Man" seems to be. But I can't truly know until I see entirety of the latter film.
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"You call yo'self a homo-top-of-da-food-damn-chain-sapien?"
-Randy of da Shawk Haters Club
"A good plan violently executed now is better than a perfect plan executed later."
- Gen. Patton
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All I'm saying is people get into these relationships that were not meant to be. Whether my future husband is Black or White I dont know. Nor do I care. I wont fight over a man just because he is Black. If it is meant to be it will work out. I'm not gonna act a fool over it. I think that was a part of the point the man in the movie was trying to make.
You right if its meant to be it will be sometimes problems come about and it was meant to be but the person chose not to fight for love but ot give up
_______________________________ CLARK ATLANTA UNIVERSITY FRESHMEN FALL 06'
he will never leave you nor forsake the bible
sleep is the cousin of death Nasir Jones
Im like Nasty NAs I represent represent VA all day!
people fear what they don't understand and hate what they can't conquer Ruyard Kippling
take it one step at a time
move to the flow of traffic
black brilliant leader americas creators kings from begining to end thats me buty
life is a test brand nubian
"You call yo'self a homo-top-of-da-food-damn-chain-sapien?"
-Randy of da Shawk Haters Club
"A good plan violently executed now is better than a perfect plan executed later."
- Gen. Patton
