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HMM QUESTION!!! Posted on 06-01-2004
The Big Girl Sweetz

*rubs his eyes some, reading* *nods* The role of the Black Woman is the same as the role of any living and breathing Human living on this earth. To help better our way of living by spreading Truth, Knowledge and Wisdom, Procreate and...just live. Im not sure that there is a set role for anyone in society (especially here in America where we all have a chance to go Hard or go Home) and Women can make just as big (or bigger) of an impact as men. That holds no bound to race either. As far as at home, I believe that women and men should take the same amount of responsibility in cooking, cleaning and pleasure. I believe in dual income houses where both parents work, come home tired and do whatever the hell they want. Its the privelege of working, and if she (or he, in sometimes rare cases) doesnt work then they will have to pull their weight by keeping the house clean. They dont always have to clean, but damn DO SOMETHIN. (like i said, these rules know no bounds)
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B'Lyse757 replied on 06-18-2004 12:13AM [Reply]
everything should be equal
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replied on 06-19-2004 08:25PM [Reply]
THE ROLE OF A WOMEN DEPENDS ON HOW YOU WERE RAISED...THERE IS NO "RIGHT TYPE OF WOMAN"... TO ME: A WOMAN IS THE BACKBONE OF THE HOUSEHOLD...REGARDLESS OF IF SHE'S IN THE KITCHEN BAREFOOT OR IN A BUSINESS SUIT RUNNING A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY...HER FIRST PRIORITY SHOULD BE HER FAMILY....HANDS DOWN....OF COURSE THE HUSBAND SHOULD HELP...BUT IF HE DOESNT..THAT SHOULDN'T BRING THE WOMEN'S SPIRITS DOWN AND START THE "WELL WE BOTH WORK" ARGUMENT...BOTTOMLINE..IT IS THE WOMAN'S JOB TO KEEP THE HOUSE IN ORDER....MEN DONT RUN THE HOUSE...WOMEN DO...CAUSE IF WIFE JUST GOT UP AND LEFT ONE DAY..EVERYTHING WOULD BE IN SHAMBLES...WOMEN WOULD BE FINE..WOMEN CAN CUT GRASS....MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO DO LITTLE GIRLS HAIR
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replied on 06-25-2004 11:37PM [Reply]
ok well this doesnt have nothin to do with this forum but headturner u lookin so damn nice holla at me i've been tryna get in touch wit ya 4 da longest sorry that i have to do this in the forum but i really need to talk to headturner..just pm me or do whatever ..peace
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Wisdom_Tree replied on 06-26-2004 02:15AM [Reply]
*scurries across the post, jumps for a tree and misses, falling on the hard pavement* *hides in bushes*
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 06-26-2004 02:23AM [Reply]
tant406 wrote:
THE ROLE OF A WOMEN DEPENDS ON HOW YOU WERE RAISED...THERE IS NO "RIGHT TYPE OF WOMAN"... TO ME: A WOMAN IS THE BACKBONE OF THE HOUSEHOLD...REGARDLESS OF IF SHE'S IN THE KITCHEN BAREFOOT OR IN A BUSINESS SUIT RUNNING A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY...HER FIRST PRIORITY SHOULD BE HER FAMILY....HANDS DOWN....OF COURSE THE HUSBAND SHOULD HELP...BUT IF HE DOESNT..THAT SHOULDN'T BRING THE WOMEN'S SPIRITS DOWN AND START THE "WELL WE BOTH WORK" ARGUMENT...BOTTOMLINE..IT IS THE WOMAN'S JOB TO KEEP THE HOUSE IN ORDER....MEN DONT RUN THE HOUSE...WOMEN DO...CAUSE IF WIFE JUST GOT UP AND LEFT ONE DAY..EVERYTHING WOULD BE IN SHAMBLES...WOMEN WOULD BE FINE..WOMEN CAN CUT GRASS....MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO DO LITTLE GIRLS HAIR
Wrong....At least in my case.My dad did most of the house work including doing the girls hair if mom was at work or really busy.No one had any specfic house duties except us kids.
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Poody replied on 06-26-2004 02:27AM [Reply]
tant406 wrote:
THE ROLE OF A WOMEN DEPENDS ON HOW YOU WERE RAISED...THERE IS NO "RIGHT TYPE OF WOMAN"... TO ME: A WOMAN IS THE BACKBONE OF THE HOUSEHOLD...REGARDLESS OF IF SHE'S IN THE KITCHEN BAREFOOT OR IN A BUSINESS SUIT RUNNING A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY...HER FIRST PRIORITY SHOULD BE HER FAMILY....HANDS DOWN....OF COURSE THE HUSBAND SHOULD HELP...BUT IF HE DOESNT..THAT SHOULDN'T BRING THE WOMEN'S SPIRITS DOWN AND START THE "WELL WE BOTH WORK" ARGUMENT...BOTTOMLINE..IT IS THE WOMAN'S JOB TO KEEP THE HOUSE IN ORDER....MEN DONT RUN THE HOUSE...WOMEN DO...CAUSE IF WIFE JUST GOT UP AND LEFT ONE DAY..EVERYTHING WOULD BE IN SHAMBLES...WOMEN WOULD BE FINE..WOMEN CAN CUT GRASS....MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO DO LITTLE GIRLS HAIR
whaaaaaaaaaaat? girl i just read what u wrote and it disgusts me. how can u say men don't know how to do lil girls hair. my friend had been staying with her father since she was little and he used to have to put the perms in her hair, cook the food, wash clothes, shoot do everythang. Shoot even my dad know how to hook up a pnoytail. Most of my male friends know how to do plaits and put a girls hair in a ponytail i mean how hard is that. That's like saying women can't chop wood or something. (I don't know that's the 1st thing I thought of). But I'll be damned if I can't chop some wood.
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La replied on 06-26-2004 01:47PM [Reply]
Poody da Cutie wrote:
tant406 wrote:
THE ROLE OF A WOMEN DEPENDS ON HOW YOU WERE RAISED...THERE IS NO "RIGHT TYPE OF WOMAN"... TO ME: A WOMAN IS THE BACKBONE OF THE HOUSEHOLD...REGARDLESS OF IF SHE'S IN THE KITCHEN BAREFOOT OR IN A BUSINESS SUIT RUNNING A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY...HER FIRST PRIORITY SHOULD BE HER FAMILY....HANDS DOWN....OF COURSE THE HUSBAND SHOULD HELP...BUT IF HE DOESNT..THAT SHOULDN'T BRING THE WOMEN'S SPIRITS DOWN AND START THE "WELL WE BOTH WORK" ARGUMENT...BOTTOMLINE..IT IS THE WOMAN'S JOB TO KEEP THE HOUSE IN ORDER....MEN DONT RUN THE HOUSE...WOMEN DO...CAUSE IF WIFE JUST GOT UP AND LEFT ONE DAY..EVERYTHING WOULD BE IN SHAMBLES...WOMEN WOULD BE FINE..WOMEN CAN CUT GRASS....MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO DO LITTLE GIRLS HAIR
whaaaaaaaaaaat? girl i just read what u wrote and it disgusts me. how can u say men don't know how to do lil girls hair. my friend had been staying with her father since she was little and he used to have to put the perms in her hair, cook the food, wash clothes, shoot do everythang. Shoot even my dad know how to hook up a pnoytail. Most of my male friends know how to do plaits and put a girls hair in a ponytail i mean how hard is that. That's like saying women can't chop wood or something. (I don't know that's the 1st thing I thought of). But I'll be damned if I can't chop some wood.
cosigns....Tell her Poody. :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Wisdom_Tree replied on 06-26-2004 02:30PM [Reply]
* $ MiLa $ * wrote:
Poody da Cutie wrote:
tant406 wrote:
THE ROLE OF A WOMEN DEPENDS ON HOW YOU WERE RAISED...THERE IS NO "RIGHT TYPE OF WOMAN"... TO ME: A WOMAN IS THE BACKBONE OF THE HOUSEHOLD...REGARDLESS OF IF SHE'S IN THE KITCHEN BAREFOOT OR IN A BUSINESS SUIT RUNNING A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY...HER FIRST PRIORITY SHOULD BE HER FAMILY....HANDS DOWN....OF COURSE THE HUSBAND SHOULD HELP...BUT IF HE DOESNT..THAT SHOULDN'T BRING THE WOMEN'S SPIRITS DOWN AND START THE "WELL WE BOTH WORK" ARGUMENT...BOTTOMLINE..IT IS THE WOMAN'S JOB TO KEEP THE HOUSE IN ORDER....MEN DONT RUN THE HOUSE...WOMEN DO...CAUSE IF WIFE JUST GOT UP AND LEFT ONE DAY..EVERYTHING WOULD BE IN SHAMBLES...WOMEN WOULD BE FINE..WOMEN CAN CUT GRASS....MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO DO LITTLE GIRLS HAIR
whaaaaaaaaaaat? girl i just read what u wrote and it disgusts me. how can u say men don't know how to do lil girls hair. my friend had been staying with her father since she was little and he used to have to put the perms in her hair, cook the food, wash clothes, shoot do everythang. Shoot even my dad know how to hook up a pnoytail. Most of my male friends know how to do plaits and put a girls hair in a ponytail i mean how hard is that. That's like saying women can't chop wood or something. (I don't know that's the 1st thing I thought of). But I'll be damned if I can't chop some wood.
cosigns....Tell her Poody. :lol: :lol: :lol:
Thats right Poody! You Chop Wood! Ill be in the kitchen, making Shrimp Etoufette :arrow:
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replied on 06-27-2004 10:44PM [Reply]
Poody da Cutie wrote:
tant406 wrote:
THE ROLE OF A WOMEN DEPENDS ON HOW YOU WERE RAISED...THERE IS NO "RIGHT TYPE OF WOMAN"... TO ME: A WOMAN IS THE BACKBONE OF THE HOUSEHOLD...REGARDLESS OF IF SHE'S IN THE KITCHEN BAREFOOT OR IN A BUSINESS SUIT RUNNING A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY...HER FIRST PRIORITY SHOULD BE HER FAMILY....HANDS DOWN....OF COURSE THE HUSBAND SHOULD HELP...BUT IF HE DOESNT..THAT SHOULDN'T BRING THE WOMEN'S SPIRITS DOWN AND START THE "WELL WE BOTH WORK" ARGUMENT...BOTTOMLINE..IT IS THE WOMAN'S JOB TO KEEP THE HOUSE IN ORDER....MEN DONT RUN THE HOUSE...WOMEN DO...CAUSE IF WIFE JUST GOT UP AND LEFT ONE DAY..EVERYTHING WOULD BE IN SHAMBLES...WOMEN WOULD BE FINE..WOMEN CAN CUT GRASS....MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO DO LITTLE GIRLS HAIR
whaaaaaaaaaaat? girl i just read what u wrote and it disgusts me. how can u say men don't know how to do lil girls hair. my friend had been staying with her father since she was little and he used to have to put the perms in her hair, cook the food, wash clothes, shoot do everythang. Shoot even my dad know how to hook up a pnoytail. Most of my male friends know how to do plaits and put a girls hair in a ponytail i mean how hard is that. That's like saying women can't chop wood or something. (I don't know that's the 1st thing I thought of). But I'll be damned if I can't chop some wood.
YOUR WHOLE REPLY WAS DEALING WITH MEN DOING LIL GIRLS HEADS....IF THAT WAS YOUR MAIN FOCUS OUT OF EVERYTHING I SAID....CONTINUE TO BE DISGUSTED....
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Astarr1 replied on 07-16-2004 03:44PM [Reply]
I think any one's role in the society is the one that makes them happy. If you feel like being in the kitchen cooking and cleaning for your family then do it. If you want to runa business then do it. It whatever position you put yourself in is how others are going to view you
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