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Ladies... Another Female wit a Good Man..BUT, I'm tired Posted on 06-02-2004
Finomenol2u

Okay, check me out... I just started getting into the dating scene and... I've been play'n the field ..some would say. But, my issue is, now I have a man and he is fine as what. Its coo cause female try him and he isn't with it. He is intelligent, an excellent Athlete and he respects me... he "says" he loves, but I don't fall that easy. Its not like he's getting any and no promises or incentives have been made. I'v covered every angle thats he could come from and he seems alright. The reason that I'm not trippin over him is cause.. I'm in love with a guy thats been in my life for over a year, he just has a girl and lives in ATL. I see him during the summer and holidays, and we hang out when I'm there. This guy in Atlanta wanted to go with me b4 he had his gi;r but I said whats the poin cause he lives 500 miles plus form me and it would be to much... so we are friends. Its not like we're playin dirty cause I've talked to his"girl" on several occasions and he had told her that he cares about me and that we will reamain in one anothers life.. and she didn't argue. So help me out, dude from ATL has mad game and I have acquired some along the way. He talks to a ton of girls, but when I need him I get him. I like the non commitment with him and I like what he has to say. At times I think that my bf is too loving and not aggressive enough. He's hard wit his boys but he allows me to get away wit too much and maybe not hard enough as the guy in ATL is. I like the game and I like the challenge...so whats up. I'm a "good girl" and guys love me as a challenge, and I like the "****, playa" type? What do ya'll think
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replied on 06-05-2004 10:20PM [Reply]
DynoMite~MorgaNite wrote:
bonitachicaN757 wrote:
Girl, what the heck is your problem. I'm not trying to be mean but I think you are quite ungrateful. Look you got a man that likes u a lot but u stuck on someone else who got a girl. If you leave him for that guy in ATL you might regret it b/c if he is the playa type what makes you think he won't play you. Be happy with the good man that you have now and make it work b/c good men are hard to come by and it seems like you got a good man, but u just being a lil greedy. In the end, if you don't fix your relationship now, trust someone will be there to fix it for you.
LMAOOOOO...she sound like my momma but I gotta agree....I say let her make her mistake, we all gotta learn SOME way....most the HARD way....girl gon head an loose that good man if you WANT too, pretty sure another woman would be GLAD to scoop him up...matta FACT...whats his number??? :twisted: :lol: 8)
U know u wrong for that
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A'Kaye47 from Dover, DE replied on 06-05-2004 11:24PM [Reply]

A luv of my own wrote:
DynoMite~MorgaNite wrote:
bonitachicaN757 wrote:
Girl, what the heck is your problem. I'm not trying to be mean but I think you are quite ungrateful. Look you got a man that likes u a lot but u stuck on someone else who got a girl. If you leave him for that guy in ATL you might regret it b/c if he is the playa type what makes you think he won't play you. Be happy with the good man that you have now and make it work b/c good men are hard to come by and it seems like you got a good man, but u just being a lil greedy. In the end, if you don't fix your relationship now, trust someone will be there to fix it for you.
LMAOOOOO...she sound like my momma but I gotta agree....I say let her make her mistake, we all gotta learn SOME way....most the HARD way....girl gon head an loose that good man if you WANT too, pretty sure another woman would be GLAD to scoop him up...matta FACT...whats his number??? :twisted: :lol: 8)
U know u wrong for that
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replied on 06-06-2004 02:25AM [Reply]
Girl u need to grow up....yea that **** in ATL might seem like a challenge or whatever-but u gotta look at it in the long run. If u pick that nygga in the ATL, u gonna miss out on somethin good-and for what? Honestly i dont think its worth all that----and then when u gonna want a good nygga-----he aint gonna be no where to be found cuz when u had one u took him for granted. Girl leave that negroe in tha A alone, and handle ur business! :x
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d.blaze replied on 06-06-2004 02:31AM [Reply]
^^^i'm mad at her sig :roll:
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replied on 06-06-2004 02:33AM [Reply]
Nygga dont hate......
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Soundcheck 1898 replied on 06-07-2004 03:03PM [Reply]
BellaMocha wrote:
Some tips for ya suge. 1. Ya **** boy... he has a girl. 2. The man you with loves you and is loyal to you. Treats you GREAT. Not good... GREAT. 3. You don't find this alot. Dont' let go of it because you got the jones for a taken man. ( TAKEN, and you said it yourself that he talks to alot of girls) 4. If you think your man " :roll: loves :roll: " you too much...tell him. Tell him that you are moving too fast... or something. 5. You and ole boy in ATL are just friends... keep it that way if he is content with his girl. 6. Don't make the mistake of thinking that because the guy your with isn't your type that he isn't good for you. Some people need change in their life to know what to appreciate and what works for them.
^^Thats wassup right there... peep wisdom.
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Finomenol2u replied on 06-07-2004 08:54PM [Reply]
Thanks you'll for the "tough love" I was feelin really guilty and I made my first steps in moving in a new direction last night. I told ol' ATL boy that I was just using him (which I was) just to make me happy, whatever way he could benefit me, I took it. Now wit my boyfriend I'm going to leave him alone and move on, theres some things that, although you may be looking in from a far it looks like real COACH its really a CATCH. I'm on some real stuff now, and maturity is coming in a near second. So Big ups and thank you's for those who gave their input and advice. I know what and who I really want and need in my life.
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jadekiss replied on 06-08-2004 01:20AM [Reply]
:::Starts to shout::: Thank God! I'm glad for ya sweety... I would say sorry for being so grimey with it...but hey ya did the right thing! Good Luck wit ole boy.
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Cadillac-On-Four-Flats from IRVINGTON, NJ replied on 07-12-2004 12:01PM [Reply]
I would say that you lost your mind but it's obvious that something just isn't right for you so do what's right for you whatever makes you happy
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MzHowardU07 from Washington, DC replied on 07-12-2004 01:32PM [Reply]

What's up girl? I was in a similar situation. I have a great boyfriend, but I also found myself liking another guy "friend" who had a girl. After repeatedly going after this guy I found out that I was wasting precious time. I figured if he really wanted me, he would leave his girl, but he never did. So that told me something. I'ma say the same thing to you. If he wanted you, he would leave his girl. Stay with the loyal man.
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