I consider myself a good man ladies I keep myself up, I love God, and I am goal oriented, but my girl of 5 1/2 years left me because she said she wanted to date other dudes. So my question is why do black women always complain about there not being enough good black men , but when you have one you dont appreciate him?
I believe a good man is one that you can grow with mentally and spiritually. One that is not selfish nor controlling. Appreciates you, loves you unconditionally, will give you his last piece of chicken lol, puts you first,willnot **** you verbally or physically, is not afraid of committment, respects you, has morals, and has love for God. A couple that prays together stays together. These are just a few of the requirements but not all.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
Also a good man is trusting, trustworthy, honest, and compassionate. A good man also knows how to be a man and still hold on to his childish spirit.
a good man hmph i think i found one he understands me,sweet, he doesnt pressure me bout nuttin,he actually listens to what im sayin,yeah he works alot but he's payin for is tution and he always finds time to spend with me naw he dnt no how to cook but wants me to teach him he's kinda shy but i could live wit that i mean he aint perfect but right now he's the closest thing i got to perfect