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Flipin' The Script Posted on 07-13-2004
Jay03

Wuzzup Ladies, I got a question. Why is it that when a girl sees a boy that she likes, she initially acts all nice to him , but when he doesn't approach her or show any intrest to her in that way she gets upset? I mean yeah she might be tight and all but why can't she just understand that there might be other factors affecting the way I feel about her. Do some girls just feel like they can get every guy out there? In some cases the girl turns evil on the guy. I have high standards, why can't some girls just chill and be friends sometimes. Holla Back with your answers.
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Jay03 replied on 07-14-2004 11:48AM [Reply]
I didn't lead her on. I mean she might have been cute and all, but I thought she would get the message since I didn't jump like every other male did. It is more than looks for me, cuz there are alot of "dime" girls out there. And also I titled this post "flip the script" because I was referring to how females seem to flip the script from likeing me to "hating" me when they see that I am not trying to get at them.
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KärolinaPläyboy from charlotte, NC replied on 07-14-2004 01:25PM [Reply]
When I use this 'method' it makes most girls want me even more. because they realize that I'm not jumping on every girl with 2 legs and a smile. they see it as a challenge, and they could be the ONE. my .11centz
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replied on 07-14-2004 01:36PM [Reply]
KärolinaPläyboy wrote:
When I use this 'method' it makes most girls want me even more. because they realize that I'm not jumping on every girl with 2 legs and a smile. they see it as a challenge, and they could be the ONE. my .11centz
so in other words....that's your "game?" why do u need to have a "method" to talk to a girl anyway? :roll:
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trulyblessed24 replied on 07-15-2004 03:12PM [Reply]
it iz true to say rejection hurts n all..but if i can recall on numerous events where guys get highly upset as well when they try to holla @ a female and shes not tryin to hear it. she just ignores u and keeps walkin. am i right about this ladiez??
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La replied on 07-15-2004 03:14PM [Reply]
I think you are talking about petty and immature females...Cause mature women dont sweat sumthin like that. We move on and find better. 8)
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trulyblessed24 replied on 07-15-2004 03:19PM [Reply]
^^^this is true mila..holla!!
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KärolinaPläyboy from charlotte, NC replied on 07-16-2004 12:48AM [Reply]
niacwhite wrote:
KärolinaPläyboy wrote:
When I use this 'method' it makes most girls want me even more. because they realize that I'm not jumping on every girl with 2 legs and a smile. they see it as a challenge, and they could be the ONE. my .11centz
so in other words....that's your "game?" why do u need to have a "method" to talk to a girl anyway? :roll:
No, thats not my "game". but this has proven to work for me on c o u n t l e s s occasions. Even with grown women at my job. I know first hand, that they have a thing 4 me, and they have placed me high on their "List of things to do" mainly because I haven't given them any more than a hi or bye. Does that mean I have game? no, it means I know how to adapt to my surroundings. definitely a difference.
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replied on 07-16-2004 01:03AM [Reply]
Although I do appreciate a man thats not drooling all over himself i like to see a man that takes an effort to show a lady how he feels....Hey im old fashioned
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Blutifully Human from Washington, DC replied on 07-16-2004 01:18AM [Reply]

Jay03 wrote:
Wuzzup Ladies, I got a question. Why is it that when some girls sees a boy that she likes, she initially acts all nice to him , but when he doesn't approach her or show any intrest to her in that way she gets upset?
Lol. What, did u expect her to be HAPPY that she was getting rejected :lol: ? Getting "upset" is a normal response. I mean, i'm not saying that she should act **** towards you and smack her lips and roll her eyes everytime she sees u comin. All of that isn't necessary. But u can't blame her for being upset.
trulyblessed24 wrote:
it iz true to say rejection hurts n all..but if i can recall on numerous events where guys get highly upset as well when they try to holla @ a female and shes not tryin to hear it. she just ignores u and keeps walkin. am i right about this ladiez??
YEP! As trulyblessed stated, this happens alot to the ladies as well. Dudes will be all nice when they're tryna holla, but if you're not trying to hear them...u get cussed the hell out! The funny one to me is "Ay shawty! wassup!"...*female keeps walkin*..."well F*%@ you den! You ain't dat cute neway!". Ha, it kills me how a female is magically unattractive just that quick. So let's just say we feel your pain.
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EkWoah replied on 07-16-2004 05:19AM [Reply]
i like when they get mad you didnt approach them and its like... then why didnt u just approach me especially when you werent interested in them in the first place :twisted: but its always good to be nice
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