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Men Posted on 10-05-2004

KnowledgableTruth
Cincinnati, OH
I got a problem... I got a boyfriend...he is cool...been knowing him for a while...we got together right before i left for school...He's like the husband type...trying to get his mind right and all of that... But then *background music*dum dum dum dddddddduuuuuuuummmmmmm* I met another guy who damn...he is so damn...i can't explain...he's the rough type...type that needs that ride or die chick...and damn...he's just that **** that you can f ck...kick it wit...be real wit...have fun wit...all of that... My friends don't like him but one of my partnas was like..."that would be just the **** you'd fall in love with" I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend or what...I want to wait until decemeber when I go home to see if its as strong as it should be...but then again I don't want the other one to be like f ck it either...I'm so damn confussed...i told the one down here that i broke up with my boyfriend though...but...i don't know HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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KnowledgableTruth from Cincinnati, OH replied on 10-05-2004 10:38PM [Reply]

The rough dude isn't a **** persay...he justgot out the military and he's goihng to school...he's just rough...real masculine like...he's not a bad guy
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Afro-American replied on 10-05-2004 10:43PM [Reply]
thugs are generally greater guys then even regular guys, they know how to sacrifice and hustle, and they know how to treat a girl....but then again, just like there are bad thugs there are bad oreos...i mean why everyone wanna put a stigma on the ****...my bad WAYY off topic *moving away from post*
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AggieWarrior from Charlotte, NC replied on 10-05-2004 10:49PM [Reply]

*PURE*Kindnezz wrote:
dang, yall makin the dude sound like a gangsta. She didn't say he was a "****"...just "rough"...so to speak :lol:
that "rough" type will be the first to leave
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Kinkee replied on 10-05-2004 11:13PM [Reply]
JsGyrl1110 wrote:
AggieWarrior wrote:
how bout you just stick to the boyfriend you have... b/c that rough type N*gga will be the very first one to smack you when you do somethin wrong.... and then you gonna be wishin you had the "hubby type" back... and he gonna be all successful... best bet is to keep what you have...
I agree with D and remember the saying: You never know what you have until its gone...and u don't want to lose something good in your life to find out it was the best thing you had and you can't get it back, stay positive, safe, and keep ya head up -1LUV
I cosign the cosigner.
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Princess LaRonda replied on 10-06-2004 02:32AM [Reply]
mannnnnnnnnnnnnn think about which one makes you happy...which one satisfies you...which one can relate to you...which one can you see yourself with for an extended period of time...
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Blutifully Human from Washington, DC replied on 10-06-2004 05:13AM [Reply]

AggieWarrior wrote:
*PURE*Kindnezz wrote:
dang, yall makin the dude sound like a gangsta. She didn't say he was a "****"...just "rough"...so to speak :lol:
that "rough" type will be the first to leave
that isn't necessarily true Dwayne wayne "rough" is not equivalent to "negative"
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Its_like_candie replied on 10-06-2004 02:24PM [Reply]
AggieWarrior wrote:
how bout you just stick to the boyfriend you have... b/c that rough type N*gga will be the very first one to smack you when you do somethin wrong.... and then you gonna be wishin you had the "hubby type" back... and he gonna be all successful... best bet is to keep what you have...
I have to agree with Dwayne!! I droped a nice guy for a "rough" guy and that **** did me dirty and i hope he goes to hell on a full-ride scholarship!!!! Okay...that was really mean. I didnt mean it. But for real...u betta STAND BY YO MAN!!!!
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AggieSweetie07 replied on 10-06-2004 09:10PM [Reply]
JsGyrl1110 wrote:
AggieWarrior wrote:
how bout you just stick to the boyfriend you have... b/c that rough type N*gga will be the very first one to smack you when you do somethin wrong.... and then you gonna be wishin you had the "hubby type" back... and he gonna be all successful... best bet is to keep what you have...
I agree with D and remember the saying: You never know what you have until its gone...and u don't want to lose something good in your life to find out it was the best thing you had and you can't get it back, stay positive, safe, and keep ya head up -1LUV
double cosigns....
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KnowledgableTruth from Cincinnati, OH replied on 10-07-2004 05:01PM [Reply]

In response to rough vs. ****...he's not a ****...he does have bad traits but so does the other one...there are times when i'd rather be with one over the other but the majority of the time i want to be with that Georgia boy...he acts more of the way I think a man should act towards his woman and we aren't together....while on the other hand...the one that i'm with had been trying to get at me for years and once we get together...i'm not happy...he doesn't act the way that i feel the man that i'm with should act...now i'm trying to wait until I go home to see if things get better...you know...if absence makes the heart grow fonder...but on a daily basis...me and the one down here get closer...be it after just kicking it together...or having an argument...we grow while i feel like i'm at a standstill with the other...I do think that the one i'm with is the husband type...but i don't think he's the husband for me...I'M STILL CONFUSSED...HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Kinkee replied on 10-07-2004 06:06PM [Reply]
KnowledgableTruth wrote:
In response to rough vs. ****...he's not a ****...he does have bad traits but so does the other one...there are times when i'd rather be with one over the other but the majority of the time i want to be with that Georgia boy...he acts more of the way I think a man should act towards his woman and we aren't together....while on the other hand...the one that i'm with had been trying to get at me for years and once we get together...i'm not happy...he doesn't act the way that i feel the man that i'm with should act...now i'm trying to wait until I go home to see if things get better...you know...if absence makes the heart grow fonder...but on a daily basis...me and the one down here get closer...be it after just kicking it together...or having an argument...we grow while i feel like i'm at a standstill with the other...I do think that the one i'm with is the husband type...but i don't think he's the husband for me...I'M STILL CONFUSSED...HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We pretty much told you what you should do. Now if you don't do it. There is nothing else that we can tell you.
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