Naw man, I'm sorry but if I wanna give ya some head, I will. I see it like this, if I'm on that level with someone that I would even CONSIDER giving them some attention, they better not ask me for it like it's a requirement for the relationship or something. C'mon, how does that sound..."hey Ashley, I wanna know when you're gonna give me some head?" WTF?? I'd feel like some kinda hoe.
I understand what you're saying but I think it's kinda different than the question asked. See, the way Rod ask the question, it was like it is the dude's FIRST time trying to get some oral pleasure from a female that may not be on that same level with him, that's why it's a problem. Like I said before, you shouldn't ask because if she wants to do it, she will without your "suggestions." On the other hand, it seems as though you're speaking from the perspective of someone that is in a relationship and your partner has provided this "service" before and when ya'll see eachother you just make a request cuz, like you said, it may be something you miss. There's a difference in getting someone to do something for the first time and getting them to do something that they've done before and just hadn't done in a while. I dunno if I explained this well, but do you see what I'm saying?
You shouldn't have to ask, there should be, well... an understanding.
Usually if it's like that, then you don't have to ask, she'll just do it. Also, if she breaks you off, then you need to give something in return. Again, part of the understanding.
I can't imagine just sitting there... "so... how 'bout some head?"