I know I don't discuss it..well only with one person because I feel it is a personal and private thing. I get a little embarrassed when I talk to him about it...I mean I know it's natural, but it's still a little embarrasing to actually verbalize your actions. I hope that made sense.
i just think it's cause it's almost expected for dudes to do it but for girls it's like they should have someone to do it for them, so it's an embarassment thing.