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Can she be too pretty? Posted on 12-04-2004
melle_mel
Minneapolis, MN
Why is it that men sometimes shy away from women who are very attractive (I'm talking stunning/dazzling not just pretty) and confident, carrying herself well and with class? Is gorgeous too beautiful? Is it intimidating? Are they afraid of rejection? What's up?
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AfroPoeticSista replied on 12-10-2004 05:34PM [Reply]
i think of myself as an decent-looking person, but i have been called "beautiful" by other men before.... i've been told I am intimidating.... but I wonder if it's my "beauty" that "intimidates" them or how I carry myself....
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 12-10-2004 05:42PM [Reply]

I think I'm an okay looker. Guys always say that they think I already have a boyfriend. I say go after yours. So go for it guys. She's either gonna say yes or no. She says yes, you got you a girl. She says no, move on.
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juzs0cute703 replied on 12-14-2004 04:03PM [Reply]
yeh basically you have nothin to lose.... but you shouldn't talk to a girl JUST because she's beautiful....want to talk to her because everything about her is beautiful including her personality.
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Afro-American replied on 12-20-2004 07:31PM [Reply]
im average but i have alot of pretty friends and most of them are single because guys wont approach them, i think that guys who wont approach a girl because of their looks are punks indeed....and i think yall are missing out...i mean i think yall fellas should take a chance and live a lil.....
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replied on 12-24-2004 09:58AM [Reply]
A beautiful female whose confident and can put on anything is a turn on. A female whose full of herself is what’s turns me away. I treat all females the same no matter how you look, because it really matters what your packing inside then what’s on the outside. It took for me to come to college for me to really approach females anyways, I use to just sit back and wait for them to come to me. But also remember some pretty girls make it hard for you to approach them.....
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 12-24-2004 10:31AM [Reply]
Da Kool™ Iz Back wrote:
juzs0cute703 wrote:
yeh basically you have nothin to lose.... but you shouldn't talk to a girl JUST because she's beautiful....want to talk to her because everything about her is beautiful including her personality.
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Have you taken a tour of blackplanet lately?Most people on their name physical attribute requirements before mental. "I want a girl wit a big chest and thick thighs ,oh yea,she got to have a bangin' personality". :roll:
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 12-24-2004 10:33AM [Reply]
NCboi07 wrote:
A beautiful female whose confident and can put on anything is a turn on. A female whose full of herself is what’s turns me away. I treat all females the same no matter how you look, because it really matters what your packing inside then what’s on the outside. It took for me to come to college for me to really approach females anyways, I use to just sit back and wait for them to come to me. But also remember some pretty girls make it hard for you to approach them.....
The common mistake guys make---> treating all females the same.NEVER DO THAT !!!
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replied on 12-24-2004 10:56AM [Reply]
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
NCboi07 wrote:
A beautiful female whose confident and can put on anything is a turn on. A female whose full of herself is what’s turns me away. I treat all females the same no matter how you look, because it really matters what your packing inside then what’s on the outside. It took for me to come to college for me to really approach females anyways, I use to just sit back and wait for them to come to me. But also remember some pretty girls make it hard for you to approach them.....
The common mistake guys make---> treating all females the same.NEVER DO THAT !!!
I think You might have took it out of context....I will not treat a girl different just because shes fine...The finest people who are **** inside are the most ****...
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thisgirl replied on 01-08-2005 11:22PM [Reply]
The REAL question is why in the WORLD the broke down negro with three teeth thinks it's ok to holla at a good-lookin' businesswoman walkin' down the street. Splain that. Is it the opposite effect? He has nothing to lose, so he may as well take a shot? Don't dudes have any kind of radar for what kind of woman they truly have a shot with? I mean, if she looks like she spends a nice chunk of time in the gym trimmin' her frame up, and you look like your exercise is changin' the channel... If she's in the books and dude is outside on the corner lookin' like he doesn't even know what GED stands for, 'sup? I know the folks here are college-bound, colleging, or colleged, but some o' y'all burn a little intelligence on this here question. SPEAK on this, please.
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Buttascotch replied on 01-09-2005 12:14AM [Reply]
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