Why is it that men sometimes shy away from women who are very attractive (I'm talking stunning/dazzling not just pretty) and confident, carrying herself well and with class? Is gorgeous too beautiful? Is it intimidating? Are they afraid of rejection? What's up?
I don’t think a lady can be too beautiful. If you are blessed with beauty and class, be thankful. Most people are hesitant to approach an attractive lady because of rejection. It is human nature to want to succeed at what you attempt. Therefore, people attempt things they feel confident about. Personally, I don’t have a problem approaching an attractive lady. However, if she is not smiling, I will probably not say anything. Therefore, keeping a smile on your face will definitely make guys approach you.
I do not consider my self as gorgeous, near-perfect or any of that. I mean at the most I think that im pretty, maybe beautiful, but at the same time, I'm still very young.
Although I'm young I still experience people 5-6 years older than me, try to talk to me, and when I respectfully turn him down, because of age, they tll me I'm stuck up.
At my school me and my bestfriends are considered stuck-up. Although most people don't take the time to get to know us, and find out that it's not the fact that we are stuck up, but the fact that we do NOT go to school to worry about guys. Education is by far the first and most important.
Then thats when we are known to be called girls wo think they know everything. Thats not the case at all.
I find it easier to communicate with guys, because I've been raised with my brothers. So when the guys who are around my age respectfully approach me at the mall, or wherever we are, I give them a chance, and usually have a conversation with them because its easy for me to converse with them.
I think if you are a male thats afraid, well intimidated by a woman, you should use that fear positively, not negatively shooting yourself down.
You can take that fear and make it confidence. you already know that you're either going to be accepted by her, or let down, so prepare yourself for the worst but approach her with the confidence [[not cockiness]] that you naturally generate, and do not prejudge her because you never know what could happen.
I think if you choose not to appraoch that female because of her beauty than it's your loss, and you should gain a little bit more confidence in yourself, and know that you're good enough to take that opportunity, and you just may not be whats she's looking for.
Think of it as an interview for a job [[more or less]]. The company representative will either like you, or dislike, call you back to inform you that you've gotten the job, or you won't recieve a call at all. Overall you wouldn't know which was your outcome if you've never taken the opportunity at all, leaving you to think "what if'.
Sorry for the loooong message.
No female is too pretty to holla at or have a relationship with.
I talk to the pretty ones like I would talk to the ugly ones.
If I don't talk to em some other dude may.
And I'd rather increase my odds of being the one on the phone with her later that night.
I agree with you 100%. NO female is too pretty to holla at. Most guys stray away from them because of their own abilities or lack there of. I know a lot of guys think that these girls are the concieted or prissy, but fact of the matter is they are people just as you are. I'd rather put my name in the game, rather than let the next guy come along and grab a goldmine.
Most guys don't want the headache of always worrying about the next man trying to holla at they peeps. When you have a Halle Berry type lady you know everytime she walks out of the house, somebody will be after her.
Personally, I wouldn't worry myself about it, because people with do whatever they want to do, no matter how good you treat them. Pretty and ugly women cheat! LOL