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***Please read and respond*** Posted on 01-28-2005
lilbrownqt05

Ok... This is gonna be kinda long... Last year my guy friend and I hung out together. WE were very good friend but he was very mannish. He's one of those people who'd be like "you look good but you'd look better in my bed" and stuff like that. Anyway, we had a few conversations. He asked me to be his first and so I was. So we were together for a while and then we had a falling out so we stopped messing around. So I practiced abstinence for about 7 months when I moved away but then we got back together in November and you know.... So the other day, I had a realization that I shouldn't be someone's cut buddy. I have too much going for myself. I have nice hair, a car, a nice body and high self-esteem. So I told him and he said ok. So we had a parting event and it was GREAT! Oh My Goodness HBCU ladies, I thought I saw the heavens open up but anyway, I think I have feelings for this man because you can't do what lovers do and not expect love feeling to grow. I think I'm so into him. And we're both going to the same college so that's another reason that I'm trying to run away before I get attached. Do I pursue him because I was his first or do I lay low and move on? Thanks in advance!
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Snoop_Doop replied on 01-31-2005 11:11PM [Reply]
***Real advice hurts and just that "real", we would be in the wrong if you told you some lame sh**. Don't focus on that one thing, look at all the other things that have been said by the ladies on here (including myself)...that's just real sh** honey
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Kinkee replied on 02-01-2005 12:43AM [Reply]
Snoop_Doop wrote:
***Real advice hurts and just that "real", we would be in the wrong if you told you some lame sh**. Don't focus on that one thing, look at all the other things that have been said by the ladies on here (including myself)...that's just real sh** honey
Exactly you must always keep it real. Fucca frontin on your shyt. That only causes more drama.
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La replied on 02-01-2005 09:41AM [Reply]
Kinkee wrote:
Snoop_Doop wrote:
***Real advice hurts and just that "real", we would be in the wrong if you told you some lame sh**. Don't focus on that one thing, look at all the other things that have been said by the ladies on here (including myself)...that's just real sh** honey
Exactly you must always keep it real. Fucca frontin on your shyt. That only causes more drama.
Yup * nods head *
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GaPeAcH replied on 02-03-2005 02:16PM [Reply]
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Ok. Let me clarify something for everyone because it seems like I'm getting jumped on for a comment i made. When I said I have nice things it was only to show that I wasn;t trying to make up for something by hookin up with him. Traditionally it's people who don't have much going for themselves that give into people not treating them poorly because they don't feel good about themselves. Furthermore, no one on here can judge me. I just asked for some sisterly advice because this is what I thought this board was for. I guess I was wrong.
No clarification needed, your words just show that you have some growing up to do and like I said, that comment of yours made a lot of stuff go through my head. If you wanna know the real, holla at us, if you don't, hey, that's on you. And last I checked, we did give you some sisterly advice (as you put it), but if you don't want to accept it, then hey, that's fine too. Have a nice day! Question of the day: Why do people put their business up here, say some stupid ish and then when folks reply they come with that "you can't judge me" bullsh*t like we're trying to judge them in the first place?
like she said its up to you if u wanna take the advice of not. most of us have either been in this situation or have experienced it to some degree so its not like we makin this stuff. some of us have gotten past ur level and just trying to help you come up its up to you whether or not you agree, but good luck to u baby gurl AS for the question of the day....people just wanna hear what they wanna hear, its simple as that
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JCSUcutie replied on 02-04-2005 11:25AM [Reply]
cosigns with everybody else. but it seems like to me you are already attached and dont know it. first of all, he was ur first so u will always be attached to him or have some kind of feeling. and he obviously has some kind of feeling for you that he kepts coming back to you. but i agree with chad...he is going to want to see what college is like and BELIEVE ME you will too. you do not want to go to college booed up and then when you get there be mad because you have seen what the rest of the world had to offer. just give him space and let him come to you. dont sweat him girl, **** eat the up when you sweat them - it boosts their ego!
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lilbrownqt05 replied on 02-16-2005 05:59PM [Reply]
Thank you gals and guys (Chad) soooooooooooooo much! You all are the greatest!
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