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What are the problems with the dudes at your school? Posted on 03-08-2005

R-Tistic
Los Angeles, CA
It seems like every girl I meet seems to say negative things about dudes from their school, and for those at Spelman, they seem to say negative things about dudes at Morehouse. So to you, what would you say are some of the problems overall about the dudes at your school?
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CraziSXYcooL from Jackson, MS replied on 12-05-2005 09:33PM [Reply]

R-Tistic wrote:
CraziSXYcooL wrote:
The main problem I see is that many men come to school and begin to talk to someone and when that someone starts to fall in love with him, he tells her that he has a girl back at home, ending up breaking the female's heart. Some may agree, while others may disagree, but I myself just went through that. I spent a year in a half almost devoting my time to this guy who I thought felt the same way as me. I find out that he had a girl back at home (who is actually enrolled here now) the whole time. Why do fellaz do that??
Damm, shady. Some dudes actually do that, but females have done similar Sh*t. Some girls may have an ex who they claim they'd NEVER get back with, but when that dude comes back like "I am sorry I will never cheat again, I still love you, I will change", they might run back to dude.
You're right. There are some females that do that, but the ones who actually do right are the ones who ALWAYS get hurt. I'm soooooooooooo tired of being one of those females.....
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replied on 12-09-2005 12:11AM [Reply]
I keep having these strange thoughts any one know why? xx(xx(
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replied on 12-16-2005 07:24PM [Reply]
I concur.
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prettypoet8804 from Hayward, CA replied on 12-18-2005 08:16PM [Reply]

they prefer white and asian girls with "****" and "hips" then a black girl with them. i think it's cause i'm supposed to be this way so when there's someone who deviates from the flat **** norm it's like a big deal. i go to a mostly white high school, so i don't know why i'm bothered by this. do HBCU men appreciate their women? i'm not dissing interracial relationships, i think that's all good. but can a sista get some non old **** men appreciation for once?
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replied on 12-18-2005 08:25PM [Reply]
***Showers attention on prettypoet8804*** There ya go chica.
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prettypoet8804 from Hayward, CA replied on 12-18-2005 08:27PM [Reply]

thank you. :-D
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replied on 12-18-2005 08:43PM [Reply]
You'vre very welcome. You're right though. Some girls have features which make them unique, and automatically stand out to guys. Black women, especially at an HBCU, are at a disadvantage becuase of the ratio. you need something extra to stand out.
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prettypoet8804 from Hayward, CA replied on 12-20-2005 11:41PM [Reply]

i glow from within. in a few months i'll see if that's enough. and i'm just tight.
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prettypoet8804 from Hayward, CA replied on 12-21-2005 01:40AM [Reply]

ah, that's it, i'm never in the west. it's not my part of the town. i'm not starting turf beef, i don't claim anything, it's just not where i lived and any family/friends i have are in the east/north so that's where i spend my time.
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almondwindows from Baton Rouge, LA replied on 12-21-2005 05:51AM [Reply]

Nikkid8520 wrote:
I'd say the problem with guys at SU are too busy tryin to be man **** and getting serious is the last thing on their minds. Plus it seems to me that they're more likely to go for the hoochies than the conservatives. Oh and dont even think about goin for a Greek if you aint Greek yourself.
I agree with every thing but he Greek part; I don't know a lot of Greeks like that (and I do know a fairly large number). Most guys are always overlooking the nice, professionally-dressed women for girls who have their assets revealed to the world. If it's not that, I'm mad at the guys who have grills in or who say "Pssst". Fellas, "Pssst" is a hoe call; no respectable female will answer to it.
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