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Difficult Things to Say Posted on 03-29-2005
Perseverance

What was/were the hardest thing(s) that you've ever had to tell somebody? I'll post my response later. :arrow: BTW, if this has been done before, someone can go ahead and lock this.
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replied on 03-29-2005 09:10PM [Reply]
It's always hard for me to tell someone to wipe the crumbs off of their mouth. I just sit back and laugh at em.
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 03-29-2005 09:11PM [Reply]

Telling a guy, that I really liked but was doing me so wrong, that I didn't need to be messing with him because it was tearing me down, was prolly the hardest thing I had to say. It's really hurtful when you care so much for someone but you know you're being mistreated, but I'm over it now and I'm glad I made that decision. And to all the females that are going through this exact thing now, just let it go cause time heals and the right one will come. It's too many good men out there.
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replied on 03-29-2005 09:16PM [Reply]
TheWire wrote:
Kool™ in High Definition wrote:
TheWire wrote:
I love you. Can't say it at all. Makes me feel terrible because I just can't get it out.
Hell yeah! Especially to a person that you TRULY love. You can't play or B.S. around with that word....and it's hard for me to spit it out sometimes.
I mean i have trouble even telling my mom I love her. And i love her more than anybody in this world. It hurts when she tells me she loves me and I just can't squeeze it out. I've only said it to her two times i can remember in my life and that is b/c she gave me "that look" like she was bout to cry. And when i said it my **** chest was burning. It's really terrible.
Damn man. I feel the EXACT same way about the EXACT same situation you just posted. I'm gonna do some psychological research on this!
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 03-29-2005 09:16PM [Reply]

TheWire wrote:
Kool™ in High Definition wrote:
TheWire wrote:
I love you. Can't say it at all. Makes me feel terrible because I just can't get it out.
Hell yeah! Especially to a person that you TRULY love. You can't play or B.S. around with that word....and it's hard for me to spit it out sometimes.
I mean i have trouble even telling my mom I love her. And i love her more than anybody in this world. It hurts when she tells me she loves me and I just can't squeeze it out. I've only said it to her two times i can remember in my life and that is b/c she gave me "that look" like she was bout to cry. And when i said it my **** chest was burning. It's really terrible.
You know what...I hate to admit this but I have a hard time saying "I love you" to my mom as well and I love her to death. She the only person in this world that would ride and die for me. But for some reason, when she tells me that, I'll mumble it back or won't even say it.
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replied on 03-29-2005 09:20PM [Reply]
Wow.... and all this time I thought I was alone. I thought **** was gonna try to call me wrong or some ****lol. I don't know tho, I think i might get it from my father. I don't remember hearing him EVER tell my mother he loves her off the bat. But i've heard her say it to him a bunch of times, and he mumbles it back. I don't want that trait from my father tho, that ****just feels grimey.
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replied on 03-29-2005 09:22PM [Reply]
TheWire wrote:
Wow.... and all this time I thought I was alone. I thought **** was gonna try to call me wrong or some ****lol. I don't know tho, I think i might get it from my father. I don't remember hearing him EVER tell my mother he loves her off the bat. But i've heard her say it to him a bunch of times, and he mumbles it back. I don't want that trait from my father tho, that ****just feels grimey.
I never heard my mom and pops tell each other 'i love you'. My pops never said it to me, and mom tells me every blue moon. I think that's why it's hard for me to spit it out, too.
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 03-29-2005 09:23PM [Reply]

TheWire wrote:
Wow.... and all this time I thought I was alone. I thought **** was gonna try to call me wrong or some ****lol. I don't know tho, I think i might get it from my father. I don't remember hearing him EVER tell my mother he loves her off the bat. But i've heard her say it to him a bunch of times, and he mumbles it back. I don't want that trait from my father tho, that ****just feels grimey.
Damn, that could be part of it. I never saw my own father love my mom so as I child did I feel like I shouldn't show I love her too?? I know we getting "Starting Over" in here but maybe we should evaluate why it's so hard to say "I love you" to the person that loves us the most.
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replied on 03-29-2005 09:25PM [Reply]
Yeah... Where the hell is Laidbackfella when you need him... We need him to be Oprah again.
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replied on 03-29-2005 09:35PM [Reply]
MeganJerai wrote:
TheWire wrote:
Kool™ in High Definition wrote:
TheWire wrote:
I love you. Can't say it at all. Makes me feel terrible because I just can't get it out.
Hell yeah! Especially to a person that you TRULY love. You can't play or B.S. around with that word....and it's hard for me to spit it out sometimes.
I mean i have trouble even telling my mom I love her. And i love her more than anybody in this world. It hurts when she tells me she loves me and I just can't squeeze it out. I've only said it to her two times i can remember in my life and that is b/c she gave me "that look" like she was bout to cry. And when i said it my **** chest was burning. It's really terrible.
You know what...I hate to admit this but I have a hard time saying "I love you" to my mom as well and I love her to death. She the only person in this world that would ride and die for me. But for some reason, when she tells me that, I'll mumble it back or won't even say it.
I actually have no problem tellin my mother I love her. I do it almost everytime I say bye. But my father. I have alot to say about it but I think I'm goin to save it. Its AWKWARD just talkin to him and sayin I love him. Right now I been kinda feelin like any love I had for him is fading actually. But basically whenever he ever he leaves he gives the artificial soundin- luh you. And me and my sister give it back in return. just awkward.
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replied on 03-29-2005 10:06PM [Reply]
Telling sOme that im nOt feelin them the same way they are feeliN me ... it maKes me feeL bad but i dont see why i shOuld :fOrce: myseLf to be interested in someone im not :-(
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