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Difficult Things to Say Posted on 03-29-2005
Perseverance

What was/were the hardest thing(s) that you've ever had to tell somebody? I'll post my response later. :arrow: BTW, if this has been done before, someone can go ahead and lock this.
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replied on 03-30-2005 06:01PM [Reply]
TheWire wrote:
I love you. Can't say it at all. Makes me feel terrible because I just can't get it out.
Yep.. i dont like the word, i barely say it.. i am not good at commitments. Thats a major problem i have. but i have told my mom and dad that i love them... and thats it oh my sister,
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SweetChocolateLady replied on 03-30-2005 10:12PM [Reply]
~*Secret*~ wrote:
it seems like i always get the news of someone dying and then i have to repeat the story to someone else...its so hard telling someone else that one of their loved ones is ****....i think it may be worse than actually recieving the news urself :sad:
My mom passed away on the 12th of this month, and the whole week before she was in the hospital, I didn't go see her at all. I can't even look at a hospital, and my family they never told me anything except they were running tests on her, so I was just waiting for her to come home. She walked out of the house right in front of me to go to the hospital that monday, I was waiting for her to walk right back through that door. I went on saturday because my aunts, who live 2 hours away from us were down here, I went to the hospital. I was about to turn the cornor to go into ICU(I didn't even know she was in ICU) when they wouldn't let us go in because she went into cardiac arrest, they brought her back, I could not take it so I went home. at 6:00, my dad came home and told me that she had passed away at 4:30, saying she went into cardiac arrest 3 times, but they couldn't bring her back on the 4th time. Its hard for me to say I'm sorry for not being there, the last word I said to her was "ok." She was known to go into the hospital for 3 days, maybe a week, and come home and be fine, she just drove me and a few friends from a weekend camp the saturday before she went into the hospital. So when I asked her where she was going, she said "To the hospital," and I said "Ok." I still cry myself to sleep sometimes, especially when I think about it. But when I'm expressing myself like now, It makes me feel better, no one has to read this post, but I feel good just writing the story!!
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P o e t i q R e i g n from Greensboro, NC replied on 03-30-2005 10:22PM [Reply]

BabyTig2005 wrote:
Well, it's hard fa me to tell sumone how I really feel about them, cuz I don't wanna be hurt again. Das da biggest one.
i def feel ya on that.... i used to be scared all around, when it came 2 that....used 2 stay having my guard held up...and keeping things to myself... but now...i'll get a feel for where his head/heart is at....and go from there....if i know he's feeling me....i now have no problem telling him i feel the same way about him....if i do....and exactly how much.... but anyway....it's definitely hard to break up with someone u really care about.... and...it's also a little hard to tell people u care about who have sensitive feelings....the negative aspects and reality of themselves.... depends on who it is, tho.... and finally...it's hard to tell myself "Beware!!! he's an asshole!!" to where i'll actually listen, lol nah, but i've improved on this tremendously....sorta :?...so lemme stop :arrow:
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Kinkee replied on 03-30-2005 10:58PM [Reply]
~Telling someone that you love them because you are afraid of rejection. ~Telling someone about their self (breath stank, **** stank, etc.) ~Admitting that sometimes may pride may get in the way
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P o e t i q R e i g n from Greensboro, NC replied on 03-30-2005 11:01PM [Reply]

Kinkee wrote:
~Telling someone about their self (breath stank, **** stank, etc.)
oh yeah...stuff like that...and physical stuff (i.e. plaque on someone's teeth..."creature" in their nose...etc. etc.)...definitely not easy 2 say....especially if it's someone u just met...
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~Admitting that sometimes may pride may get in the way
too true....
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Perseverance replied on 03-31-2005 08:39AM [Reply]
~*Secret*~ wrote:
Perseverance wrote:
There's been a lot of difficult things for me to say in this year already, but what really sticks out is when I told a woman that I didn't want to be her valentine.
awww...why'd u say no
Here's the deal. We're both going to college, but we live 7 to 8 hours away from each other. Plus, she has a class on every Saturday morning, and she works crazy shifts. Since she took a semester off from school so she could have more funds for next semester, and since she transferred from another school in which she lost some credit hours, I told her that it was more important for her to go to class so she wouldn't fall behind any further in her schoolwork. Plus, I didn't want her to drive 7 or 8 hours all day by herself, and then drive back 7 or 8 hours to get back to work. Of course, her feelings were hurt, but she understood what I was saying.
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La replied on 03-31-2005 10:06AM [Reply]
Perseverance wrote:
~*Secret*~ wrote:
Perseverance wrote:
There's been a lot of difficult things for me to say in this year already, but what really sticks out is when I told a woman that I didn't want to be her valentine.
awww...why'd u say no
Here's the deal. We're both going to college, but we live 7 to 8 hours away from each other. Plus, she has a class on every Saturday morning, and she works crazy shifts. Since she took a semester off from school so she could have more funds for next semester, and since she transferred from another school in which she lost some credit hours, I told her that it was more important for her to go to class so she wouldn't fall behind any further in her schoolwork. Plus, I didn't want her to drive 7 or 8 hours all day by herself, and then drive back 7 or 8 hours to get back to work. Of course, her feelings were hurt, but she understood what I was saying.
oh ok...Well I guess there is nothing wrong with that. You were trying to keep her best interest in mind which is good. But shes kinda dumb if she would drove 7,8 hrs and leave that same exact day for another 7,8 hour ride. She wilin...not for no damn valentine. Maybe a boyfriend Im going to visit that Im in a long distance relationship and Ima be there for a few days....lol
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replied on 04-02-2005 06:53PM [Reply]
telling my mom i love her, when i'll say it to my man in a heartbeat...and letting him (my boyfriend) know my feelings and thoughts on things
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King_J replied on 04-03-2005 01:39PM [Reply]
"I love you dad" I love my dad but it would be hard to tell him
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replied on 04-03-2005 05:12PM [Reply]
To a guy : I'm not interested...I just want to be friends...Ur not my type.
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