I have chemically relaxed hair but I haven't had a it relaxed in a minute cause I've been giving my hair a break. It's been relaxed for years, I've colored treated it and put a lot of heat overs the years so I'm giving it a year break.
I like my hair state, but nothing like being au natural.
I'm natural but I don't wear it natural, I get it pressed. Relaxers do nothing for me. I have permanent scars on my head from that stuff. Also, a study has been done showing that women that get relaxers for more than 20 years are more prone to getting fibroids and really bad dandruff.