Hey I feel that a person can change. With time comes maturity. I am a changed person I'm not a virgin (but who nowadays are?)? I don't have a HORRIBLE past, but if a MAN is going to be with me accept me for who I am and who I am today not what I used to be or who I was back then.
Before everyone jumps on the bandwagon of criticism, just remember YOUR past might not be squeaky clean either!!
Fam I think you and ol gurl need to sit down and have a talk. There is no reason why she should be that stupid or gullible. If she is trying to be with you then tell her to stop or get on.
I'm done with her now, it's no way I could wife her up. But she is definitely seven years behind mentally when it comes to social situations, and she is VEEEEEEEEEERY insecure and has hella low self esteem....so with most girls, I'd be mad and be like "eff that stupid azz biioootch, she's shady as hell" but she's too dumb and gullible to know she's shady...and I just feel bad for her. She has way too many issues for me to ever wife her up, so I'm happy that these things happened now instead of later on.
But that's probably why many of us could never get with a "former freak" or "hoe from the past" because we feel that all it'll take is another random dude to come game em up and make em feel good for a few minutes, and they'll let them hit too. Most females who were loose at an extreme level have major mental issues, and are damaged from the jump.
To answer the question...hell no...No no no.
Awhile back though my friend posed a question to me that made alot of sense.
If you going to school (especially an HBCU) and you get up with someone...how do you know that the person is not a former freak or a converted hoe? I mean, how do you know her rep outside of what she tell you? You could go to her city and dudes looking at you crazy for being with her....and you may wonder why...Just a thought...I think if you dating in college, every potential mate should come with a background check and credit report....
Yes you can. Unless she did all of that while she was with someone. That would be shady. I hate when people say "oh, it wouldn't be special if she did it with someone else", especially if their asses un had many affairs. Its the relationship you share that makes it special. Not how many people its been done with. Women are not your property. And just because you date someone doesn't mean you are stuck with them. Give it a try. You are young, and have plenty time to find #1. If it ain't her, move on.
man if she used to be freaked out and aint no more and u wanna do it then do it... i wouldnt cuz the campus gone be lookin at me like...... super save a hoe... plus would i really want some used goods like dat.... im jus sayin..... thats me.. i dont deal in the hoe game...