This goes out to the female posters on here, what do you really want from a man? What do you expect from us and are some things you want us to do better. Males, can post of this topic to, and tell what are your opinions on What Women really want from men!
"A Woman wants what she wants, when she wants it. Just be sure to be there at that Exact time to do Exactly what she needs, and youll be fine." "But how will you know?" "You wont."
*laughs* I dont have anything real witty or rhetorical to say to this post... What women want and what women say they want changes as much as the tides do...I think what I would want my woman to do is to know what she wants so that I can give her that. Im not talking about the big things either, the honesty and affection and all of that. Those arent uncommon traits in some guys, but its the small stuff that starts the arguments. When two people get together (and actually start living together) then there should be some standard communication. If you dont like somethin, SAY SOMETHIN. I cant guess what you want all the time, this isnt like when we first met and all of the simple stuff made you happy, naw. I mean, yeah imma surprise you with cheesecake and a foot massage in bed, but you gotta give up some praise or let a N*gga know you upset or somethin! My dad goes through this all the time with his wife, and theyve been married for about 9 years now.
*sees he rambled, leaves*
Like many of you, I also dont know what I want.....but I thought what he said about making sure you are what a woman wants when she wants it just seemed to apply to me, I hate to admit it but yes what I want does"change with tides"
and you know that cheescake and a foot rub isnt such a bad idea.....thats classic, wouldnt mind getting that :grin:
What about when women say they want all of those things that you lovely ladies said but when it comes down to it, it's boring or some ish like that. Or when women say they want a nice guy who has himself together but in the end, they want some busted ****. What's up with that?
It goes deeper than that. Alot of females say that they want "kindness, love, and respect"...but doesn't every human being want that? Those qualities are a given. But just becuz a man is kind to me, respects me, and "claims" he loves me, doesn't mean that i will necessarily have chemistry with him and feel a connection. Many men seem to think that just becuz they are "a good Black man" that every woman is automatically supposed to fall in love with them. U can't choose where your heart goes. If love was that simple, i'm sure most peeps wouldn't be single right now.
My pops used to tell me that women are never satisfied....
Most of the time, I believe him, but sometimes I dont.
Ya'll want EVERYTHING, give or take a few pounds.
I don't want "everything"...i just want what i deserve
There might be a man somewhere in this world who just so happens to believe that i deserve "everything"
...and he would probably be right. :wink:
Just be sure to be there at that Exact time to do Exactly what she needs, and youll be fine." "But how will you know?" "You wont."
*laughs* I dont have anything real witty or rhetorical to say to this post... What women want and what women say they want changes as much as the tides do...I think what I would want my woman to do is to know what she wants so that I can give her that. Im not talking about the big things either, the honesty and affection and all of that. Those arent uncommon traits in some guys, but its the small stuff that starts the arguments. When two people get together (and actually start living together) then there should be some standard communication. If you dont like somethin, SAY SOMETHIN. I cant guess what you want all the time, this isnt like when we first met and all of the simple stuff made you happy, naw. I mean, yeah imma surprise you with cheesecake and a foot massage in bed, but you gotta give up some praise or let a N*gga know you upset or somethin! My dad goes through this all the time with his wife, and theyve been married for about 9 years now.
*sees he rambled, leaves*
oh man, i can't talk for all women, i understand that i'm different, but for me, yeah the big stuff honesty, loyalty respect, etc. but also, i want for my man to be himself always around me, not trying to figure out what i want all the time, or how he can keep me by is side. i'll a tell a person straight up, if i'm with you i'm with you i want us to have fun enjoying each other with no regrets,i'll respect you while you respect me. i want a real love someone i can depend on while i know that if anything is going on, i'll be the first person he runs to. that no nonsense type of love, i'm here for you, you here for me. i can't really explain it, i know that i don't settle for less that a person who is right for me, you have to be on my level to really understand where i'm coming from right now. its not just a relationship to feed our constant need to be with someone, but a relationship to forever feed my hunger for a love that will always be mine i know that most people don't think about falling in love when they get together but thats what i'm looking for when i find a guy someone, who is willing to give up is freedom for love, a man who is not afraid to voice what he feels cause i kow for damn sure i'm gonna voice my feelings.
*sigh* I'm that type of girl who accepts and understands the differences evey man has, i love that about men, there pride, they strength, all i want in a man is happiness, which is someting you can't describe (although i've tried) but you have to really understand what you want in life, and know where you wnt to be before you start asking more from your man\woman.i quoted him because i don't change, i wanted this 5 years ago and i still want it now, most likely want it in the future
basically i don't want to keep going from realtionship to relationship, if we have open communication from the get go, i can tell you if its gonna last
i know exactly what the women want..i seen the mel gibson movie...
women dont really want honesty, cause the truth hurts...
they just wanna hear what they Want TO hear...feel me?
women REALLY want a man who is good them..and can lay the pipe...
that keep women stuck all the time...
Thanx for letting us know what the hell we want...
i know exactly what the women want..i seen the mel gibson movie...
women dont really want honesty, cause the truth hurts...
they just wanna hear what they Want TO hear...feel me?
women REALLY want a man who is good them..and can lay the pipe...
that keep women stuck all the time...
Thanx for letting us know what the hell we want...
It's all about batting averages...
You can preach about what you want ALL DAY LONG, but if the track record and reputation dont match with what's being "preached", the "sermon" aint worth a nickle.
i know exactly what the women want..i seen the mel gibson movie...
women dont really want honesty, cause the truth hurts...
they just wanna hear what they Want TO hear...feel me?
women REALLY want a man who is good them..and can lay the pipe...
that keep women stuck all the time...
they don't nkow what they want....they don't know...nobody knows...not even allah...but oh dear god he tires....he tries so damn hard...poor little allah :-(
