Ok I have come to realize that us greeks tend to get stressed out over some of the things that prospects may do or say…simply because they do not know proper protocol. So this thread is for all the greeks to list things that ALL ASPERANTS SHOULD KNOW in terms of proper behavior. (Lets try to keep it simple)
I will begin:
1) Do not go to an interest meeting for more than one org…do your research until you know which one is best for you.
2) If you only want to be greek for the following reasons…then this isn’t for you:
A.Want to join because you like to step
B.Want to get more girls/guys
C.Want to become popular/accepted
3) Do not wear and org’s colors to an interest meeting
4) Do not throw up greek hand signs or do the calls
5) Do not go around telling people what org you are a prospect of.
6) Stay away from the words “ I’m gonna be a ________” or “I’m a future________”
7) Do not cut through party walks or brake lines.
'Tis all for now…
Ummm......... Even though the last couple of pages of posts have been "kind of" hostile, my passion for the org that I have chosen to commit to just gets stronger.
I have found the tips to be very helpful (especially since that is one of the main reasons why I joined the site). It make me happy to know that I have been going down the right path. I have been doing intense research on the org of my choice since my intrest originated (soph. yr. in HS).
So to all that are on here to give tips to us Greek Prospects, keep it up!
And to the HATERS.............
My suggestion would be to figure out how bad you really want it. If you just kinda what it or think you're "pretty" so you meet the inital requirements to be a Kappa then don't waste my time. If you really want it, then I'll entertain whatever questions you may have. Here's some suggestions however:
1. If I'm with any NUPES, its probably not a good time to approach me. It will definitley get **** and your pride may get hurt.
2. Know something about my frat before you come talk to me. At least know the basic stuff that's on the net, hint***
3. Know my name, my major, where I'm from, show me that you've taken the time to do your homework on a brother.
4. Don't be scared, shaking, sweating, bout to pass out; I put my drawz on just like you do, mine maybe polo with playboy bunnies on them, but that's irrelevant.
5. Don't wear red, don't walk by the NUPE STOOP, TREE, TABLE, etc., Don't breath NUPE air unless we authorize it! JJ
6. Don't try and associate yourself with us. Many are called but few are chosen!
7. Don't approach me when I'm trying to talk with a beautiful young lady, wait until after I finish conducting business and holla at me then while I'm alone.
8. Don't ask me "what does NUPE stand for?" Or if you can come by the frat house. NUPE is simply for the ladies :razz: The frat house, well just be bold and show up, that's what I did. Now, that maybe painful, but look where it got me :grin:
9. Ahh...be "name brand." That means be involved in the campus, community, church, something. I shouldn't be like, "who the hell are you? Do you even go to this college because I haven't seen you around or at any of our parties." Hint**
10. (Lastly, notice I stopped at 10) Get your education. Hell, that's what your **** is at college for anyway. Can't learn nothing, trying to follow me around all day...asking to pledge. If God wants it for you, you'll get it.
This is Karnal's Theory anyway. Much love to all my beautiful sorority sistas, peace.
Shouldn't there be some slack in that type of situation. I mean I would love to pledge, but it sounds like those girls were just being jealous not because she disrespected there colors.
Well I guess I'll be the one to start things back up...
1. Don't become friends with someone just because you think they can pull for you. It may back fire on you in the long run
2.Make sure you know basic info before you show your intrest.... founding/charter info, past line info....just to name some IMPORTANT things.
3. GRADES!!! please don't come up to me if you have a 2.499999 if the GPA has to be a 2.5 I can't change anything.
4. If the line just came out let them enjoy being greek for a little while before you start come~ n up to them.... We know who most of yawl are we were all in the same boat a few months ago.
5. If you apply to the org. of your choice and you don't make it and your friend does. Please do not be spiteful you never know why you didn't make it... this should just be fuel for you to keep trying ( also don't burn your bridges)
6. Please do not take it upon your self to make up lies about any type of hazing... lies start and lines drop...
7. This is my last one... if you may know of someone who maybe online for xyz please do not make it your business to broadcast this all over the yard. you never know who knows who
Well I guess I'll be the one to start things back up...
1. Don't become friends with someone just because you think they can pull for you. It may back fire on you in the long run
2.Make sure you know basic info before you show your intrest.... founding/charter info, past line info....just to name some IMPORTANT things.
3. GRADES!!! please don't come up to me if you have a 2.499999 if the GPA has to be a 2.5 I can't change anything.
4. If the line just came out let them enjoy being greek for a little while before you start come~ n up to them.... We know who most of yawl are we were all in the same boat a few months ago.
5. If you apply to the org. of your choice and you don't make it and your friend does. Please do not be spiteful you never know why you didn't make it... this should just be fuel for you to keep trying ( also don't burn your bridges)
6. Please do not take it upon your self to make up lies about any type of hazing... lies start and lines drop...
7. This is my last one... if you may know of someone who maybe online for xyz please do not make it your business to broadcast this all over the yard. you never know who knows who
You had the best advice out of all the comments! Your advice actually makes sense!
