Ladies, how long would you talk or date someone before feeling like he should commit to you? Lets say you have been "talking" for about 5 months...is that long enough to finally make it official?
Also, how do you handle a guy who you know is crazy about you and you're crazy about him but he's afraid of his emotions because of previous heart break? Do you stay with him and hope he eventually grows out of it? Do you try to force it out of him? Or do you deal with not being on the same page as he is?
For your first question, If he is not AT LEAST giving you the hint that he wants to hook up....then let him be the first to say something...If he is hinting, maybe he's shy so you could maybe mention it.
Secondly, tell him that your not the other girls....He cant treat you like every other girl. Everyone is different and tell him he has nothing to loose. Yall can at least try. Ya never know unless you try
For ya first question, I think it's more of a mutual decision ya feel me. If yall have both decided that you're on that level than the commitment level is already established. Because if you think about it, you may think its time for him to be commited to you but he's feelin differently ](*,)
And for the second situation. In my opinion, everybody goes through some form of this. But you should reassure him that you're unique and unlike anything he's had before. You should defintiely stay with him so he can see exactly what u mean ya feel me.
you can't really force it out of him cause he gon feel how he feels regardless.You just gotta be patient with him man.
