I know that we have all heard females everywhere complain, or "give reasons" for the fact that they are single. The common theme that I find, especially in college, is that most of the females who have excuses/reasons for being single usually blame the men that they have met and have been surrounded by for the fact that they are single. Most of them will never admit their downfalls, and always have a reason for anything somebody may use to knock them.
So my question to you all...could you honestly admit that there may be some reasons to why you are single? Whether it's your personality, looks, or anything else you feel could be wrong with you, but WITHOUT flippin the script. Meaning..."I admit it's because I'm usually not in a good mood....but I'm only like that because the dudes make me mad all the time" is not a valid reason.
These are some straight up honest answers, and i commend ya'll. I'm actually feeling som of ya'll right now wit the choosing to be single part. I think serious relationships at this point in our lives is a lil over rated, and not really necessary unless you plan on getting married to that person. Just develop that friendship first.
i'm unattractive to men. you have to be **** to get their attention. oh and you have to be real thick too. or they won't like you.
that honest enough for ya?
Nah, that was actually kinda weak. If YOU in particular have to be **** to get their attention then there must be somethin wrong with you. That was a helluva generalization you made and it's definitely not accurate. If a female is "****" or dressd with nothin coverin her, dudes will only be on her and tryin to holla at her because they wanna f***, not because they wanna get with her. On the flip side, dudes will only wanna holler at a girl as in gettin with her if she's dressed respectable, because most of us don't want a female who shows everything she got.
These are some straight up honest answers, and i commend ya'll. I'm actually feeling som of ya'll right now wit the choosing to be single part. I think serious relationships at this point in our lives is a lil over rated, and not really necessary unless you plan on getting married to that person. Just develop that friendship first.
I agree. Some people think mu crazy for thinking this too . I feel at this point of our lives we can think that we will have a seriousrelationship especially in high school and the start of college. I know for a fact that I am a flirt, enjoy the company of guys and I have serious friendships that I know will last longer that a boyfriend will. I look forward to having a deep relationship but that will happen years from now when im looking for a husband. Until then... friends with benefits is my policy aka the "no strings attached regimen" which is my thing. I LOVE THE FREEDOM!! :-D
I think I'm single because for 1, I'm too VAIN. And I'm not really allowing myself to get with anybody because the guys that do come up to me are "not my type",in which those characteristics are set by my vainity.
*Reads statements above* A generalization for some...a reality for others.
...basically :arrow:
To answer the question, if i wanted to be taken right now, i could. But instead of settling for whateva i can get, just to have the luxury of sayin "I have a man ya'll!", i choose to wait for what is right for me...not for what is convenient.
Now, could i be single for qualities that i possess? Possibly. I've had dudes not call me back after they found out that i didn't plan on givin it up. I've had one dude be unhappy with me becuz i am a highly busy person and didn't have enuff time for him or give him enuff attention. As for other reasons, ...hell if i know. You'd have to ask the guys who are no longer in the picture or the ones who don't want me. I'm sure they could give u a ton of answers way before i could :???:
. I feel at this point of our lives we can think that we will have a seriousrelationship especially in high school and the start of college. I know for a fact that I am a flirt, enjoy the company of guys and I have serious friendships that I know will last longer that a boyfriend will. I look forward to having a deep relationship but that will happen years from now when im looking for a husband. Until then... friends with benefits is my policy aka the "no strings attached regimen" which is my thing. I LOVE THE FREEDOM!! :-D
