I know that we have all heard females everywhere complain, or "give reasons" for the fact that they are single. The common theme that I find, especially in college, is that most of the females who have excuses/reasons for being single usually blame the men that they have met and have been surrounded by for the fact that they are single. Most of them will never admit their downfalls, and always have a reason for anything somebody may use to knock them.
So my question to you all...could you honestly admit that there may be some reasons to why you are single? Whether it's your personality, looks, or anything else you feel could be wrong with you, but WITHOUT flippin the script. Meaning..."I admit it's because I'm usually not in a good mood....but I'm only like that because the dudes make me mad all the time" is not a valid reason.
I think I'm single because for 1, I'm too VAIN. And I'm not really allowing myself to get with anybody because the guys that do come up to me are "not my type",in which those characteristics are set by my vainity.
Well in my situatution, I'm always bumping into guys that think of me as a lil sis, then those cheesy guys that say i'm their friend then they try to smash, or those guys who want me to be the "other" woman. Basically it's a mess. Especially on my campus, to find a girl that hasn't been completed smutted out is a rarity. Then again I do talk a lot of Sh*t, I'm a self proclaimed ball buster( always taliking Sh*t on a dude) Plus I've notice with some guys, and even with my guy friends it seems like a dark skin is good enough to sleep with but not good enough to take home to mama. Plus the guy I want is in lamest terms "taken" So I'm on my chill.
I agree wit ya. i can be a ball buster at times too although i dont plan it :? . The point you made about dark skin is sad but sometime true. I feel that needs to change... im brown skinned by the way...
I know that we have all heard females everywhere complain, or "give reasons" for the fact that they are single. The common theme that I find, especially in college, is that most of the females who have excuses/reasons for being single usually blame the men that they have met and have been surrounded by for the fact that they are single. Most of them will never admit their downfalls, and always have a reason for anything somebody may use to knock them.
So my question to you all...could you honestly admit that there may be some reasons to why you are single? Whether it's your personality, looks, or anything else you feel could be wrong with you, but WITHOUT flippin the script. Meaning..."I admit it's because I'm usually not in a good mood....but I'm only like that because the dudes make me mad all the time" is not a valid reason.
This is a really good question. I feel the reason I'm single is because I'm picky. I feel like I deserve the best man God has for me. With that in mind I had to learn the importance of friendship before a relationship. And I used to chase after these extremely handsome but female magnet guys. Now I know personality is just as important as looks are, probably more so.. but God is dealing with me on the looks thing. Not that I like cute guys with crap attitudes, because I don't. But I had to learn about them the hard way. Inconclusion, it is my fault but also SOME of the guys I've dealt with in my life.
i'm unattractive to men. you have to be **** to get their attention. oh and you have to be real thick too. or they won't like you.
that honest enough for ya?
Nah, that was actually kinda weak. If YOU in particular have to be **** to get their attention then there must be somethin wrong with you. That was a helluva generalization you made and it's definitely not accurate. If a female is "****" or dressd with nothin coverin her, dudes will only be on her and tryin to holla at her because they wanna f***, not because they wanna get with her. On the flip side, dudes will only wanna holler at a girl as in gettin with her if she's dressed respectable, because most of us don't want a female who shows everything she got.
The explain the dudes that rudely hollas at you when you are dressed?
honestly...its my fault that i am single right now....plain honest truth....Im reluctant to get into anything serious right now...and thats the truth...there is someone i can get into a relationship with...but im not just ready for that....the last one really did put a hurtin on my heart and so i can't just jump into somethin else like i did with him....
I can't lie though...i wouldnt mind being in a relationship...i wanna feel loved...i want somebody to love....to cuddle with...to kiss....to just be around....to have.......but..im just scared of getting hurt again....so instead...i'll just check out my options and continue to search for prospects....::shrugs::...
Yeah, me too. I actually was "looking" if thats what you can call it....
But I gave up. I got other things in life I'm trying to get ahold of to let some woman get in my way.
