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What do you do Ladies??? Posted on 09-22-2005

dymondpuzz
Brooklyn, NY
Ladies, I have a question! What do you do when you like this guy, I mean this guy is intelligent, respectful, makes me laugh, he has plans for his future, knows what he wants in and out of life, in a woman. He is spiritual as myself and he always help me stay focused. I am in a state in my life that changes has occur and well he has been that friend that we always need. This guy is very attractive inside and out. We hit it off...................BUT he is involved We haven't cross the lines but in our minds we have. I know that he is involved and I am not the type of person that involve myself with men like that but it just happen.....I know about her because he was upfront about her to me but he also told me he was unhappy. I believe him becuase of his religious bringings and the person that he is. I just want some INTAKE on this and guys if you like you can respond also...........Keep it Clean NOW!!!!
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replied on 09-22-2005 04:58PM [Reply]
Define your version of "Hit it off"....
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dymondpuzz from Brooklyn, NY replied on 09-22-2005 07:50PM [Reply]

" Hit it Off' We meet at a college game with some friends, we talked and hung out that weekend and we found out we had alot in common and our views on some things in life were preety much the same. We been chatting on and offline since then....
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replied on 09-22-2005 09:55PM [Reply]
dymondpuzz wrote:
" Hit it Off' We meet at a college game with some friends, we talked and hung out that weekend and we found out we had alot in common and our views on some things in life were preety much the same. We been chatting on and offline since then....
Oh, Ok. DO NOT.....I repeat...DO NOT go ANY further until he's finished with this lady he's with now. Even when he is finished with her....go SLOW...and I mean, SLOOOOW. Especially if his current situation is kinda rough. Let him have his little healing time. Men need it too, whether we wanna admit it or not.
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Miss. Soulful from Macon, GA replied on 09-22-2005 10:46PM [Reply]

Kool 2k6 wrote:
dymondpuzz wrote:
" Hit it Off' We meet at a college game with some friends, we talked and hung out that weekend and we found out we had alot in common and our views on some things in life were preety much the same. We been chatting on and offline since then....
Oh, Ok. DO NOT.....I repeat...DO NOT go ANY further until he's finished with this lady he's with now. Even when he is finished with her....go SLOW...and I mean, SLOOOOW. Especially if his current situation is kinda rough. Let him have his little healing time. Men need it too, whether we wanna admit it or not.
I totally agree wit Kool... You wouldn't want to mess up what could be a good thing by rushing head first into a situation without thingking about it. Even more so because he already has a girl. He may or may not be unhappy who knows. But now you need to stay in that friend mode which I would suggest is best. Even after he finished like Kool said take it slow. If its a good thing one day it will be a good thing the next. There should be no rush. Other wise you could just be caught up in the waves of lust....
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PoeticChocolate from Sacramento, CA replied on 09-23-2005 01:28AM [Reply]
Kool 2k6 wrote:
dymondpuzz wrote:
" Hit it Off' We meet at a college game with some friends, we talked and hung out that weekend and we found out we had alot in common and our views on some things in life were preety much the same. We been chatting on and offline since then....
Oh, Ok. DO NOT.....I repeat...DO NOT go ANY further until he's finished with this lady he's with now. Even when he is finished with her....go SLOW...and I mean, SLOOOOW. Especially if his current situation is kinda rough. Let him have his little healing time. Men need it too, whether we wanna admit it or not.
^^^For true. Oh and uh, on a side note, ol boy obviously ain't too unhappy if he is still with her.
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replied on 09-23-2005 01:36AM [Reply]
I have to agree with all the other comment. To reinforce the previous one, if he's unhappy then he should get himself out of the situation. As a christian you would know to take yourself out of situations that may cause you to go against your beliefs Therefore both of you should acknowledge what you are feeling and either get to a place where your both uninvolve and taking it slow to get to that point or you need to step away form him. For all you know he could be a temptation place infron of you to **** you....
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dymondpuzz from Brooklyn, NY replied on 09-23-2005 09:53AM [Reply]

Thanks everyone with the advice..... :-( We are taking it slow and on his behalf with the other woman is very complicated......but I hear you.
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NeoSoulBrotha from Rosedale, MD replied on 09-23-2005 10:00PM [Reply]

If he's with someone, then the choice isn't yours to make. He has to be totally convinced that what he sees in you is greater than what he experienced with her. That takes time. If things are the way you say they are, then it will eventually work its way out, probably in your favor. I wish you the best. Holla!
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dymondpuzz from Brooklyn, NY replied on 09-24-2005 04:32PM [Reply]

NeoSoulBrotha wrote:
If he's with someone, then the choice isn't yours to make. He has to be totally convinced that what he sees in you is greater than what he experienced with her. That takes time. If things are the way you say they are, then it will eventually work its way out, probably in your favor. I wish you the best. Holla!
Thanks......By the way you are cute
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