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What do you do Ladies??? Posted on 09-22-2005

dymondpuzz
Brooklyn, NY
Ladies, I have a question! What do you do when you like this guy, I mean this guy is intelligent, respectful, makes me laugh, he has plans for his future, knows what he wants in and out of life, in a woman. He is spiritual as myself and he always help me stay focused. I am in a state in my life that changes has occur and well he has been that friend that we always need. This guy is very attractive inside and out. We hit it off...................BUT he is involved We haven't cross the lines but in our minds we have. I know that he is involved and I am not the type of person that involve myself with men like that but it just happen.....I know about her because he was upfront about her to me but he also told me he was unhappy. I believe him becuase of his religious bringings and the person that he is. I just want some INTAKE on this and guys if you like you can respond also...........Keep it Clean NOW!!!!
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Change from boston, MA replied on 09-26-2005 08:26PM [Reply]
dymond pus. sy don't you go breaking up homes u wouldn't want it done to u and as far as this male he's not any good if he's talkin to u knowin he has a girlfriend what makes u think he wont do the same to u with some clown when and if u two are together? remove yourself from this situation and repent
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dymondpuzz from Brooklyn, NY replied on 09-27-2005 04:47PM [Reply]

ChangePlease wrote:
dymond pus. sy don't you go breaking up homes u wouldn't want it done to u and as far as this male he's not any good if he's talkin to u knowin he has a girlfriend what makes u think he wont do the same to u with some clown when and if u two are together? remove yourself from this situation and repent
Are you REPENTING???? But Thanks Change....I never I could count of you to get it to me RAW!!! :-D I am not breaking up happy homes...for the record.
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kujo from baltimore, MD replied on 10-02-2005 04:13AM [Reply]
Kool 2k6 wrote:
dymondpuzz wrote:
" Hit it Off' We meet at a college game with some friends, we talked and hung out that weekend and we found out we had alot in common and our views on some things in life were preety much the same. We been chatting on and offline since then....
Oh, Ok. DO NOT.....I repeat...DO NOT go ANY further until he's finished with this lady he's with now. Even when he is finished with her....go SLOW...and I mean, SLOOOOW. Especially if his current situation is kinda rough. Let him have his little healing time. Men need it too, whether we wanna admit it or not.
^^ I think this is the best advice.
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replied on 10-06-2005 01:20PM [Reply]
Kool 2k6 wrote:
dymondpuzz wrote:
" Hit it Off' We meet at a college game with some friends, we talked and hung out that weekend and we found out we had alot in common and our views on some things in life were preety much the same. We been chatting on and offline since then....
Oh, Ok. DO NOT.....I repeat...DO NOT go ANY further until he's finished with this lady he's with now. Even when he is finished with her....go SLOW...and I mean, SLOOOOW. Especially if his current situation is kinda rough. Let him have his little healing time. Men need it too, whether we wanna admit it or not.
I agree. Until he is out of his relationship with his girlfriend, do not pursue anything with him.The last thing you need is the drama of being the "other woman". Also, do not rush into anything when he breaks up with ol'girl. Get to know more about each other and let him heal from his broken heart. You don't want to be a "rebound chick"
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tigeress05 replied on 10-06-2005 11:37PM [Reply]
Dymond.... I know how ya feel!!! I've been in that same situation b4. My advice is the same as the others but let the friendship continue to become close cause as soon as he does makes the decision to end that relationship, nine times out of ten.....ur his next prospect. :grin: But yet...give him time to get himself together first cause if he brings some bitterness into the future relationship....yall both end up bitter.
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dymondpuzz from Brooklyn, NY replied on 10-18-2005 04:49PM [Reply]

tigeress05 wrote:
Dymond.... I know how ya feel!!! I've been in that same situation b4. My advice is the same as the others but let the friendship continue to become close cause as soon as he does makes the decision to end that relationship, nine times out of ten.....ur his next prospect. :grin: But yet...give him time to get himself together first cause if he brings some bitterness into the future relationship....yall both end up bitter.
Thanks!
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AfroPoeticSista replied on 10-18-2005 04:56PM [Reply]
dymondpuzz wrote:
Ladies, I have a question! What do you do when you like this guy, I mean this guy is intelligent, respectful, makes me laugh, he has plans for his future, knows what he wants in and out of life, in a woman. He is spiritual as myself and he always help me stay focused. I am in a state in my life that changes has occur and well he has been that friend that we always need. This guy is very attractive inside and out. We hit it off...................BUT he is involved We haven't cross the lines but in our minds we have.
stay away. stay FARRRRRR FARRRRRRR AWAY!!!! Do NOT cross that line if he is still in a relationship
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~*Secret*~ replied on 10-18-2005 09:58PM [Reply]
AfroPoeticSista wrote:
dymondpuzz wrote:
Ladies, I have a question! What do you do when you like this guy, I mean this guy is intelligent, respectful, makes me laugh, he has plans for his future, knows what he wants in and out of life, in a woman. He is spiritual as myself and he always help me stay focused. I am in a state in my life that changes has occur and well he has been that friend that we always need. This guy is very attractive inside and out. We hit it off...................BUT he is involved We haven't cross the lines but in our minds we have.
stay away. stay FARRRRRR FARRRRRRR AWAY!!!! Do NOT cross that line if he is still in a relationship
lol..my advice was gonna be to ask tori
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So_Focused from Landover, MD replied on 11-06-2005 07:12PM [Reply]

NeoSoulBrotha wrote:
If he's with someone, then the choice isn't yours to make. He has to be totally convinced that what he sees in you is greater than what he experienced with her. That takes time. If things are the way you say they are, then it will eventually work its way out, probably in your favor. I wish you the best. Holla!
I definitely agree with him. It's not necessarily up to you. You can give him the choice to chose and whatever decision he makes whether it be for you or her it's just that...his decision.
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