personally, i always figure that when its time for you to fall in love with someone all your plans would have clicked in. I mean thats my point of view but i mean you can't always schedule "Fall in Love" into your day planner so i mean it depends on how strongly you feel for the person.
I guess you gotta ask yourself: Are you seriously ready to put some of your life plans on hold for someone?
I am to selfish i don't think i could do it, but as a female i am always always always going to say that you gotta go after your dreams and not let love get in the way, and if this person really loves you he'll wait.
I choose the less cynical route this time :grin:
Your dreams may not be what you are meant to do in life. A dream could be wanting to move to New York to become a singer. If you leave someone you love for that, it's your priority; you may fail at your dream though. I believe in doing what it takes to achieve, but love is a gift. If you know that you know that you know that the other person is who God intended for you then it doesn't matter because if it's meant to be it will be. Stick to your divine purpose, but don't follow foolish dreams. Know that you are in love, don't confuse it with loving someone; it's different.
i think it really depends. you can say, well dreams change. or you can say, well people come and go. if i were ever in a situation like that i'd probably just explode because i give so much to the people i love and to my dreams that i would be miserable no matter what route i chose.