I would say to follow my dreams, because off-bat, I am more goal oriented than "love"-oriented. I make myself sound like I ought to be on the Sims. I also feel that if it is truly sent by God that it will all fit together. The thing about love is that while in the relationship, people say it's love, but if it ends, they look back and see that it may not have really been love. If I were meant to be with someone, we would be able work alongside each other so that we both can acheieve our dreams, but me having to give up what I want in life for love just isn't happenin'.
BUT U COULDNT HAVE LOVE AND FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS AT THE SAME TIME BUT REALLY WANTED LUV AND FELT THAT IF U FOLLOWED UR DREAMS U WOULD BE ALONE WHAT WOULD U DO
Thats a tough situation to be in...i feel like im going to be in that same situation when i graduate. My boyfriend and i go to two different colleges, and we've been making it work and are still together (3 years). However, my boyfriend isn't as ambitious as me and i have a feeling he will return home and settle for some job there when we graduate, but i want to go to grad school and i don't think it will be in Ohio, so i feel where ya comin from. Some people say if the person loves you they won't ask u to stay. BUT if you love that person deeply, it may **** you not to stay (or wait), even if they don't ask u to, or even if they encourage u to follow your dreams. Damn,thats just the nature of love and life i guess....bottom line: the common sense thing to do is to follow your dreams,and whats meant to be will be,and blah blah blah...but in actuality its not that simple.After all, "what's common sense got to do with it ?" Not much when you're in love (from my experience at least)....so basically, to answer the question,i don't know what i would do either cuz im clearly in a confused,blinded by love type of state myself...(hence this long essay on a simple question..my bad,got caught in the feelings,hehe :?)