when i transfered down to fam, caLI native., i was suprised at the fact that the girls don't dance... i mean,you don't have to grind on people but jus standing in the back? why come?..... i personally refuse to holla at girls in the club.. yellin in each others ears.....competin with 85,0000 other cats...i'd rather find a better place to get at females that i don't have to pay for. :???:
I do admit it, sometimes dudes can be guitly of just posting up to, but at least not as deep as girls do. I mean, it's like girls are in a freakin pack man. Do you realize that dudes rarely roll 6 deep in the club, and that by being in a group that big, you're shunnin dudes away. Lol.
I have to agree with the brah above me. I don't like it when you've seen a girl just killin, makin ya jaw drop dancing, but as soon as you approach her its like ' I'm sorry, I'm too tired boo" THAT'S CAUSE YA WASTED ALL THAT PRECIOUS **** POPPIN ENERGY ON AIR!"
I have to agree with the brah above me. I don't like it when you've seen a girl just killin, makin ya jaw drop dancing, but as soon as you approach her its like ' I'm sorry, I'm too tired boo" THAT'S CAUSE YA WASTED ALL THAT PRECIOUS **** POPPIN ENERGY ON AIR!"
sometimes ya'll just get there a lil to late.....
but now i have a question......
why am i the only female in here responding to the topic... of course yall know that this is only my opinion and veiws only exspressed by myself...(feel like i have to put a disclaimer on my comments) i dont want yall to think that all females think the way i do..
have yall ever considered tellin the females how yall feel about them not dancin on the dance floor?
Guy: "Excuse me shawty, you wanna dance?"
Girl: " I'm sorry, I'm too tired right now. Maybe later"
Guy: :x .."WTF B*tch! You too good to dance or something. Take as on then!"
you see that right there^^^^^^ that is some ish that will get you cussed out. but its cool... sometimes its just the way yall come at us that makes us want to tell yall no or flip out on yall, thats all
I agree, but at the same time there needs to be a standard way to approach somebody at the club. It's too loud to be trying to talk over the music, so what choice are you left with other than to just grab a girl?
how about tapping her and suggesting yall go somewhere away from the speakers..... that has a lot to do with why we dont talk to guys in the club. Then not to mention that sometimes we have our reasons for not dancing with you our talking to you.... One of the main reasons is, one of our girls might want to talk to you, or we know of someone that your currently talkin to, or we just flat out heard that you werent about sh*t. so to avoid the drama we choose not to dance or talk to yall.
^^^...Lol. You're assuming that we already know you when we're at the club. If you don't know me, why would you follow me anywhere? Lol. You look like an **** when you try to talk over the speakers.
I have to admit...I don't dance when I first get in a club. I don't know, I guess it just takes me a while to get in the "groove" of things. I've noticed that guys get mad at that, but I don't care.
Also, I think I would dance more if the guys didn't try to grind on me so much. If I don't want to grind with them, then they get mad and say that I can't dance. Last time I checked, grinding is not equivalent to dancing. Oh well...
^^^...Lol. You're assuming that we already know you when we're at the club. If you don't know me, why would you follow me anywhere? Lol. You look like an **** when you try to talk over the speakers.
damn i see you and me are going to be going at this one for a while....
well what most guys fail to realize that buying a drink for a female isnt as taboo as it seems, and that is a good way to get a females attetion... now im not saying buy all of her drinks at the bar, but at least one, so that way you can get the conversation started. by asking her if she would like a drink that knocks 3 birds out with one stone...
1. gets her attention
2.if she's not dancing it gets her off the dance floor
3.it brings some type of attention(positive)on yourself.
just a suggestion
^^^...Lol. You're assuming that we already know you when we're at the club. If you don't know me, why would you follow me anywhere? Lol. You look like an **** when you try to talk over the speakers.
damn i see you and me are going to be going at this one for a while....
well what most guys fail to realize that buying a drink for a female isnt as taboo as it seems, and that is a good way to get a females attetion... now im not saying buy all of her drinks at the bar, but at least one, so that way you can get the conversation started. by asking her if she would like a drink that knocks 3 birds out with one stone...
1. gets her attention
2.if she's not dancing it gets her off the dance floor
3.it brings some type of attention(positive)on yourself.
just a suggestion
I donno, I have never tried to buy drinks. It just seems like somethin that will never get you anywhere. Also, I always say why should I buy them drinks to help them get tipsy so that some other dude they already got lined up can have their way with them later on?
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