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does it matter? Posted on 03-03-2006
giniacuty_757

today my sister and I went to go get matchin Capricorn tattoos and the we were over her friends Johnelle house and she was braiding this guyz hair n all and all of a sudden he told her even though you pretty I would never date a "darksin female thats just my preference" she looked confused and then he told my sister he would fucc the shyt outta of her "I loove them RED BONEZ" and his friend who was over there wit him agreed dapping him up and shyt. my sister although she light skinned wasnt going along with them she said Nellie's pretty though and the guy Tashawn was like "she too dark for me where I come from in New orleans the best of the best be them Red Bonez Shawty u digg" Then I was like thats messed up Im not darskin either but I feel that was messed up Cuz I know maaad fellas that date all types of black females I personally neva been through no guy tellin me cuz im not dark or light enuff blah thats crazy to me darkskin, brownskin, cinnamon,caramel, whatever it shouldnt matter to you if u feelin her But does it matter really? Im just curious do a lot of guyz feel this way?
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replied on 03-09-2006 01:37AM [Reply]
I think that is stupid a color is what it is thats not fair she was treated like that her or anyone else just because you are lightskinned doesnt mean anything im lightskinned i still bleed I still cry its nothing thats crazy u ask me but I hope that shei s okay I have seven older brothers im the baby and i know that guys date their preferences my brothers date them all it doesnt matter well except white girls nothin wrong with that niether but you should consider other peoples feelings oh by the way giniacuty where do you live in Virginia just wondering?
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giniacuty_757 replied on 03-10-2006 09:06AM [Reply]
babiAkeyz wrote:
I think that is stupid a color is what it is thats not fair she was treated like that her or anyone else just because you are lightskinned doesnt mean anything im lightskinned i still bleed I still cry its nothing thats crazy u ask me but I hope that shei s okay I have seven older brothers im the baby and i know that guys date their preferences my brothers date them all it doesnt matter well except white girls nothin wrong with that niether but you should consider other peoples feelings oh by the way giniacuty where do you live in Virginia just wondering?
No its stupid i feel you but um Im in 757 area I live in Croatan on the Oceant front why u live near there?
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Puerto Rican Model replied on 03-13-2006 02:58PM [Reply]
I hope and pray that we can raise the next generation of children, to see more than Light skinned Vs Dark skinned.....its really a problem in the black race and it stagnates us!
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Poody replied on 03-15-2006 07:17PM [Reply]
Serpent King wrote:
I met a woman from Louisiana who had to take the paper bag test when she was a kid. That Sh*t happened ALOT down there. That's why I think ole boy was feeling that way. They based the success of your life on how light or dark your skin was.
what did she have to take the brown paper bag test for
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replied on 03-15-2006 07:39PM [Reply]
It was just something they did back then...( probably still do now)...to determine how successful you'd be in life. My mom said people made her take it once. It's craaaazy.
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replied on 03-28-2006 11:25PM [Reply]
AGAIN ITS STUPID TO THINK THAT LIGHT IS BETTER THAN DARK OR DARK BETTER THAN LIGHT ITS CRAZY!! We are all people of color and ihave to agree with ginia cuty and Puertorican Model it does staginates us why do guys hurt these females feelings like that? thats insane to me!
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replied on 03-29-2006 06:18AM [Reply]
^^^...Aight now, lets not just limit it to guys. I've definitely been told by a female they couldn't date me cause I was ligthskinned and therefore had the potential to be grimey.
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SuperFly replied on 03-29-2006 03:12PM [Reply]
Serpent King wrote:
^^^...Aight now, lets not just limit it to guys. I've definitely been told by a female they couldn't date me cause I was ligthskinned and therefore had the potential to be grimey.
*daps serpent king*
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giniacuty_757 replied on 03-30-2006 02:22PM [Reply]
Serpent King wrote:
^^^...Aight now, lets not just limit it to guys. I've definitely been told by a female they couldn't date me cause I was ligthskinned and therefore had the potential to be grimey.
WOW thats wrong and again its a ignorant ass stereotype I dont judge fellaz for the most part I have too many male friends which I think limits me from thinking like the average female does about guys and based on color u cant out come any one as being grimey thats stupid and those females poor things dont know any better I looooove all my brothaz from dark chocolate to light bright I dont discriminate when it comes to my brothas but its SOME brothaz that got their negative attitudes and nasty ways and I stay clear away from them just like with some females just got yuck personalities u be ready to slap sone of them QUick. I base my attraction on man is by his mind and if he can dress thats usually what i love but im nto always about the physical long as u can dress lol but Im human and my physical qualities of a brotha is deepa than his skin its more like clothes, styles, hair, health, and good hygene. thats what I base myne on otha females may think differently but everyone has a preference as long as its legitamate I dont have a problem but when its stupid things like ^^ the ones we heard then I have a problem wit it. BOTH Brothaz y Sistahz need to get it together we are the color we are for reasons we whether dark brown light whatever hold that one thing in common that our ancestors were slaves no matter how much we deny or stereotype or judge we cant deny our Roots True Story u jsut cant so all that slave mentality shyt about light is better than darkand if u light u soft and what not cuz none of its true all LIES i refuse to be apart of that bullshyt not me and the smart ones will agree Blood of A Slave heart of a King Cornell West as well as NAs As a Man thinketh So shall he be blacks are like flowers so many colors yet so radiant in all its stature Nikki Giovanni Im like Nsty Nas on illmatic track 9 I represent represent Va all day! http://www.xanga.com/poetikbuty_nva
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replied on 08-16-2006 08:02AM [Reply]
The shade of her complexion does not matter to me. I love my sistahs anywhere from blue black and high yellow, to everything in between. Call me the rainbow coalition cuz, I love women of all ethnicities (but I prefer my sistahs).
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