A friend of mine is trying to "talk to me"!! We've been cool since freshman year and he kinda hooked me and my boyfriend up. So heres da problem....my bf considers him a really good friend too. (I FEEL LIKE I'M IN A DAMN USHER VIDEO) So should I say something to my bf or should I just forget about it?? I just hate to cause any confusion. So i'm not sure telling my bf would be smart. What yall think??
I think you should first talk to the friend and tell him he is making u feel uncomfortable in that position and that you are happy where you are (if you are) and then if he still persists then I suggest u tell ur man because the longer u wait the more suspicisous it will seem that you didn't say anything when ur man does find out about it.