Ok this is gonna sound cheesy but I have been wanting to be in this frat for the longest. I know I wanna be apart of them because everything they stand for and the image they carry is exactly how I am as a person. I know this guy that is in the frat but we aren't tight but I wanna ask him some questions I just don't know what to ask him. I feel like if i don't speak up then I will miss an opportunity that is very important to me. What should I do to better my chances of joining.
Ok this is gonna sound cheesy but I have been wanting to be in this frat for the longest. I know I wanna be apart of them because everything they stand for and the image they carry is exactly how I am as a person. I know this guy that is in the frat but we aren't tight but I wanna ask him some questions I just don't know what to ask him. I feel like if i don't speak up then I will miss an opportunity that is very important to me. What should I do to better my chances of joining.
Don't say anything direct since you all are not tight, it may rub him the wrong way. A good way to show your interest is to attend all of their events and volunteer your help where needed, trust me this makes your interest known :wink: .
I agree...if you hadn't been tight with this brother don't be trying to find some common ground now; to most greeks that's a RED flag. Supporting the organization through various programs that they are sponsoring is a good way to let people know where your interest are. Good Luck!
