Well if she has decided that she wants to save herself once again, I think you should standby her decision or go elsewhere. Maybe she's reached a turning point in her life. I don't think that should be met with opposition. Allow her the chance to come into her own...believe it or not by not pressuring her you may get some. If you can't wait go elsewhere and spare old girl the grief.
Aye............
this is like one of the things that make MOST dudes think a chick is either cheating on them or is lying thru her teeth..........
fact of the matter is I have tried to do the same thing......and to no avail the female tries to flip the script on me.........either thinking "I'm getting it from somewhere else" or just do not want them for whatever reason........and neither is the case so brother if she WANTS to get her life right you can either a.) accept that and let her do so and you do the same or b.) leave her be for the man that WILL respect her wishes and wait for her..............take your pick