I'm a virgin and plan on staying that way until marriage(in ohio we call it "Claimin' tha V" 8) ). Are there any others in this forum who plan on waiting? And why is it that when a femalesleeps around she is called a "ho", but when a malesleeps around, he gets madd status around his boys? To me, who's the stronger man, the one who has patience and self-control, or the one who gives in to everything with a womb who passes his way :?: Hit me back.
hey gurl i'm savin myself too! i ain't in no hurry to give my goods away. i'm also glad to know that i'm not the only one here who feels the same way.
and for the people who call promiscuous females "hoes" and congratulates a male for being the same way, i say " forget em'" as long as u do what u gotta do and keep ya legs closed, u won't have to worry about it.
Well, I guess that I am the 4th one in this club because I am still a virgin to. I mean I want to save myself for marriage because I think like this: Boys these days want to hit it and quit you, but I feel that if you are married you are alright. Plus I do not have time to be nobody's momma now because I would like to get my college education and a good job before I have kids. Plus, my virginity is just something special to me. I am 17 and still have mine.
Wassup yall, Yep I'm savin it, but for me before I decided to stay a virgin I had to determine if I was doing it for myself or for my fam, God. Cause it was all good to do it for them reasons too, but if I'm not do it for myself then what do I have to keep me against the wall. :wink: And to Afropoesticsista, I don't quite know whY we as fe males are classified as hoes, It could b cause we step up to the game and start doing males the way they do us, or it could be that male mentality that we as females will always look down on if we try to do what they do, Its the same thing in the workforce as it is in the home life, not many men like their women makin more money than them. Its all got history but it keeps poppin up wit this generation when they get a piece of their own medicine. Hmm idk, I'm just thinking out loud. Big ups to all the ladies saving that PRECIOUS Gift, cause I got my ATM card and it don't expire till my wedding night! :lol:
God bless
I would like to commend all of the young ladies (and men...if there are any) who are still holding on to their virginity. If I knew then what I know now, I would've definitely waited. It's hard being a young man...African American at that...and holding on to the virginity that God gave us at birth, and I deeply regret loosing it to the woman that I lost it to. To the ladies...keep your head up because one day, a good man is going to come along and respect you for who you are and not for what is in between your legs. And to the sister that is born-again...I know it gets hard at times but you gotta keep your head up and stay focused my beautiful sister. And to my young brothers...we have to respect these women as well as ourselves. Let's keep uplifting one another through forums such as this and keep everyone encouraged. Holla 8)
looks like i'm the 8th member in this club. i agree one hundred percent with mizzdiamond04. there's too much stuff out there and at my age i can't risk getting pregnant. i have too much stuff that i plan on doing with my life, and some of the dudes out there are triflin' and not worth what i have to offer. but thanks for the encouraging words mrthomas_msu. we all appreciate them.
