EXPECTATIONS....

5 replies · 2203 views · Started by Stealth · Mar 2005

Stealth

I just was readin this book (ha I'ma tryn be a intellectual) and I thought about some past experiences. I wondered why is it that some people want you to live up to their every expectation (or close to every one) w/o even lookin at their own imperfections. Like they automatically are everything you want. Why do some people think that others gotta live up to their every expectation in relationships? note: I posted this in hear cause it seem like females are the main ones who act like this. Just my POV.

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~*Secret*~ · Mar 2005

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LeDbYFIRE wrote:
I just was readin this book (ha I'ma tryn be a intellectual)

im not sure i can answer this question....im pretty open minded and i dont expect a guy to give more than he can give...just the basice....respect, loyalty, kindness.....if i know my bf or even just my friend is capable of doing more than what they are doing....i might be a little pushy at times...but not too much

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Lady Invictus · Mar 2005

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Not every expectation, but if you don't have any what in the heyell type of mate will you end up with? :???: I think healthy expectations are the key...I mean ppl can be outlandish... but you have to have some type of want in a mate.

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· Mar 2005

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SwatDiva wrote:
Not every expectation, but if you don't have any what in the heyell type of mate will you end up with? :???: I think healthy expectations are the key...I mean ppl can be outlandish... but you have to have some type of want in a mate.

COSIGNS!!! if you dont have some kind of expectation you are just going to end up with any kind fool... but as for your question, i think most sensible people aren't going to expect you to just give up everything. if you do you are just selfish. plain and simple. there has to be some kind of compromise or else the relationship just wont work. and as for this...

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note: I posted this in hear cause it seem like females are the main ones who act like this. Just my POV.

you are kidding right? in my opinion, woman don't have enough expectations. dudes be the ones trippin.