that's like asking why are all dudes so aggressive. personally, i can't answer that question because i'm not passive. all female aren't the same. maybe you should ask that specific girl...
I don't know why some girls send off hints, but I do not neccessary think that is playing games. I know sometimes I drop off hiints just because I don't know if the guy really wants to chill with me or not at that time. So if he catches on and lets me know than maybe the next time I won't send a hint I will just ask. I know guys that are always with there boys or are always busy and because of that you may think they are too busy for you so you may not directly ask them.
well the first thing that comes to mind and because i've been in this situation too is because maybe she doesn't know how u feel about her...how is she to know that u tryna chill too??
maybe she waitin for u to talk to her cuz usually tha's how it goes...not always...but usually
and maybe cuz the more u let some dudes kno even that u might be feelin them the more they think they can get away with and they start actin funny
not to say that if someone is tryna chill they definitely like/feelin u but they juss tryna get to kno u some more basically
it's all about communication.......tho personally i don't have a problem juss bein real about it but only if i felt the other person would be real wit me as well and not play games
cause that's the dudes job...it's not lady like for a chick to be saying "will you come over so you can **** me?" it's the dudes job to be on persuit... 8-) (nessa)
cause that's the dudes job...it's not lady like for a chick to be saying "will you come over so you can **** me?" it's the dudes job to be on persuit... 8-) (nessa)
I believe im passive..but i do it because I just want to know if thats wut he wants to do. I dont want to invite myself over and he doesnt really want me to come.
I know sometimes I drop off hiints just because I don't know if the guy really wants to chill with me or not at that time.
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being “passive” is simply easier, less obligations. u put the ball in their court, and u don’t face rejection or taxing decisions.
i’m passive cuz I like to kno how a guy feels, or where he's at, before I “put myself out there“. plus, i just like being pursued by guys--it feels good to know that someone wants you and is willing to put forth effort. it actually annoys me to see girls that are real assertive, all up in nigs’ faces…I’m too cool for that , lol. naw, i guess i was just brought up on the idea that it’s the man's job to be on pursuit, like demmeri mentioned earlier.
Ummm, i guess i'm passive/aggressive because i let guys pursue me but im assertive enough to let them know what i want. Ive never had a problem with expressing my feelings so, throwing out hints isnt an option of mine.
, lol. naw, i guess i was just brought up on the idea that it’s the man's job to be on pursuit, like demmeri mentioned earlier.
