it's not having too many standards, it's just knowing what you want and not settling for less. why would you date someone that is not going where you are in life or doing something just as well as you that will help you. if there is potential for him to mess up your dreams then chunk it at him and move on.
i took a test on emode.com and it told me that the reason why i am still single is because i won't settle, so all it means is you are not willing to compromise.
^^^^ I just took that test and it said Im not willing to Commit.
which is kinda true sometime i just get bored of a nicca.
H-TOWN_NSU_CHICK wrote: it's not having too many standards, it's just knowing what you want and not settling for less. why would you date someone that is not going where you are in life or doing something just as well as you that will help you. if there is potential for him to mess up your dreams then chunk it at him and move on.
Co-Signs. This guy I had a conversation with actually had the nerve to call me stuck up because I said I won't talk to a guy who does not have a job or is not in school. And if he is working, he has to plan on going back to school or picking up a trade, or something constructive for his life.
I mean, wtf?! Whats wrong with wanting a man who has something going in his life. If I'm in school getting my sitiuation set, why can't you be doing the same? If we are not moving in the same direction in life, what's the point of being involved with you?
i agree with most of you. to me there is no such thing as having too many standard...
i took that test also and here are my results...
Angie, you're single because you don't want to get hurt
Ever heard the expression, "Once bitten, twice shy?" You can probably relate to this, can't you? Your last relationship may have left you a little raw in emotions, and the memories are likely still fresh in your mind. Fresher than you can sometimes believe. With a hurt like that, you're probably not so eager to enter the drama again — and we can't say that we blame you. You may be so afraid of getting hurt that you take things to heart big-time when you're involved with someone — after all, you've been hurt before, why can't it happen again? You also may be guilty of comparing potential mates to your ex who may still constantly loom large in your mind.
But maybe, just maybe, it's time to check your baggage at the door and let a new person into your life with a clean slate. You have a lot to offer someone, but you can't do it when you have one foot firmly planted in the past.
