Ok..I'm in a debate with someone of the idea of hazing kids over beating them.
I'm a firm believer that beating your kids doesn't really send them a lesson. In which you have to continually beat your kids because they will continually act up. I know plenty of times I was beaten by my pops or moms and laugh because I was still wearing my Jordan's and playing my video games..
My pops got smart and stopped trying to lay a belt on me but lay a hand on my prized possessions. I went from rocking Jordans to ocking the shoes I mowed the yard in. Super Nintendo and t.v to NOTHING..My pops wouldnt even let me watch tv with them or even when his friends were around for a football game..He forced me to stay in my room..
Hmm..It's kind of like being pledged or in the the NPHC's word, "Hazed".
I will never beat my kids. I will make their lives a living HELL if they ever f*ck up..I'm sorry but pain only lasts a hour but the experience I would put you through would last forever..
My kids will know not to f*ck up..Believe me..lol
I think it all has to do with the kid. Some kids could get past not havin possesions but don't want to get the switch just like they can laugh at a beating but cry at losing their ps2. Just like rod had said in the other post he found alternatives to getting put on punishment. I think that would work good tho, but at the same time beating works too. I like the method of having a combination of two mixed in with lecturing. When their younger whoppins are gonna occur tho. If my kids are anything like me they will respond to that, that's why I think it all matters what kind of kid your dealin with.
lol..I know someone thats a 3rd grade teacher and he has his students to, "Lock Up" and recite their times tables among other things..****
I swear I will never hit my kids. Making them wear Salvation Army clothes and taking their toys are for an extended period of time will keep them in check..Im telling ya
I'm sure everybody got their ways, and if they work it's no dissin them but if yo kids grows up and is a jacked up person then you know you should of tweaked somethin.
It's a matter of setting a norm and rewarding good behavior, while punishing bad behavior.
Haze is a strong word but you do have to control the climate of your household and ensure that your children understand the expectations and acceptable parameters of your household.
I'm a firm believer in communicating with your children. When they mess up, it's the parents job to set them str8, but in a way they will understand. Hazing them is not the way to get your point across. It only shows how angry you are.
Ok..I'm in a debate with someone of the idea of hazing kids over beating them.
I'm a firm believer that beating your kids doesn't really send them a lesson. In which you have to continually beat your kids because they will continually act up. I know plenty of times I was beaten by my pops or moms and laugh because I was still wearing my Jordan's and playing my video games..
My pops got smart and stopped trying to lay a belt on me but lay a hand on my prized possessions. I went from rocking Jordans to ocking the shoes I mowed the yard in. Super Nintendo and t.v to NOTHING..My pops wouldnt even let me watch tv with them or even when his friends were around for a football game..He forced me to stay in my room..
Hmm..It's kind of like being pledged or in the the NPHC's word, "Hazed".
I will never beat my kids. I will make their lives a living HELL if they ever f*ck up..I'm sorry but pain only lasts a hour but the experience I would put you through would last forever..
My kids will know not to f*ck up..Believe me..lol
Well, I kinda agree with u, b/c my momma used to do that to me when i did something wrong (which is rarely) and now, I am still scared to death of what she might do to me! My momma is crazy.lol But she still kool as hell tho. When she used to WHOOP me I used to go back and do stupid things. Soooo......
I say that HAZING really does work and I would do that rather than beat them, but juss not too bad unless the crime was really bad.
I definitely understand what he is saying...and to be truthful, I would do tha same. There are always some kids who are immune to gettin their azzes whooped....like my nephew for instance. My sister was the same way. I would laugh at my parents because they would send me to my room, but I had a keyboard, a radio/cd player, and now I got my TV...so that wasn't no punishment!m So yes, I will probably spoil tha sh*t out of my kids and then take it all away when they act up.
