Stay confident. It's good to stay humble [not stuck up], take account for your own actions without some one having to tell you, and not misleading male friends. Besides that stay pretty and let your intelligence take over sometimes.
Ladies, if you really want a good man with "staying power", you dont have to wear 10lbs of makeup. You dont have to go over the edge trying to make yourself look like a supermodel. You dont have to try and look better than the "competition" (AKA: other women).....just be yourself.
NObody likes a doll who cant hold a conversation. Be smart, and you'll get someone smart. If you keep being dumb *(staying with men who disrespect you or hurt you)*, you'll keep getting dumb in return.
You are the fabric of all human beings. You should be treated as such. Women wear uncomfortable clothes, go through a few days of discomfort EVERY SINGLE MONTH, and they also have the ability to do this little scary thing called GIVING BIRTH. Never fall for a man who wasn't a gentleman, or doesn't have your best interests at heart in a relationship. If he didn't when he was chasing you, he damn sure wont when he's been with you for 2 or 3 years.
I love women. Ya'll keep the world goin' around.
Nothing personal to no guy up here. I know yall got the best intent in mind, but Im so tired of men wanting to tell us about ourselves, and what we should and should not do...Let us females do us...I mean really. How about yall worry about the females you are actually interested in and not worry about what the rest of us do.
Thank you "Led by Fire" and "be kool" for your thoughts. That's what I have been trying to tell some ladies, in hopes that they would realize that they don't need to do certain things to catch a man's attention... if that's the case then he's not the one... personally I'm old school when it comes to certain things... and my thing is that I will not chase a man... he will have to come to me. Plus you guys like to chase ANYWAY, lol. But, that does not mean that I won't drop a few hints, indicating that I like him cuz I wouldn't want him to be workin' hard at chasing and to not get any bait (hints).
Ladies please read these gentlemen's comments... I'm sure that it will help because it gives us a males perspective... these guys are just trying to let you know what's good and what's going on in the mind of a male.
8-) (evy)
