What about your FRIEND?

Buttascotch wrote:

diversaM&M wrote:

For me it's not that i overlook that male best friend it's just that he doesn't do it for me.

^^ pretty much i wouldnt exclude someone who goes great with my personality and whom i can confide in and trust. that'd be stupid. however, i must admit that looks matter to me. so, if im not physically attracted in any way to him, we'd prolly be keeping it at the friend level.

The Kool Juice wrote:

Ladies, I have a question to ask: Lets say that your best friend is a male.... Male is really, really, REALLY feeling you, and has been for a long long LONG time, but he realizes that he is your friend, and has been your friend for a long time. He also realizes that he can't be more than that if you dont want him to....He never does stop being your friend because he realizes that friendship in a bf/gf/fiance'/marriage type relationship is vital to the success in a relationship. He ALSO cherishes the fact the you and he are close friends, just because good friendship is hard to find..... The point I'm getting at is this: Why do ya'll always overlook the one that will always take care of you and looks out for you and your best interest? Why do ya'll exclude him from being a candidate for building a relationship with, when you know full well that he's a good man, and he will stand by you, support you and help aide you in keeping a healthy relationship? Why do ya'll exclude your true male friend from being 'next to you'????