I'm Just Asking That You Like Me Real Hard...

For ya first question, I think it's more of a mutual decision ya feel me. If yall have both decided that you're on that level than the commitment level is already established. Because if you think about it, you may think its time for him to be commited to you but he's feelin differently ](*,) And for the second situation. In my opinion, everybody goes through some form of this. But you should reassure him that you're unique and unlike anything he's had before. You should defintiely stay with him so he can see exactly what u mean ya feel me. you can't really force it out of him cause he gon feel how he feels regardless.You just gotta be patient with him man.