SPINOFF: Drop a word for us brothas....
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Started by Kool 2k6
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May 2005
ok........
MEN STOP trying to figure out the female race...as i've stated before...we are some COMPLEX creatures...we are forever changing...just deal with it
Please stop making your mind up about women based on ONE or even a FEW...not every one is perfect...but hey if some female or femaleS have broken your heart one time too many...please dont condemn the rest of us ....(that goes for ladies too)
You guys dont ALWAYS have to take care of things (fiscally)...there is nothing wrong with a female who has money and who WANTS to take care of business occasionaly...just dont get TOO used to it...lol
If you would like to engage in a successful conversation with a female then at least acknowledge the fact that her eyes are NOT in her chest...after a while it feels uncomfortable for us (and yes i know some males are gonna say what if she puts them out there...im bound to look...yeah i kno...and im guilty of that...lol check my avatar...but be a gentleman lol...and some of us will learn how to keep the girls under wraps lol)
Despite whether or not you believe in us using **** (the pill mainly or the shot or whatever) its really not up for you to have much say...it is our bodies...we do what we can...
also...Keep an open mind fellas...people nowadays are so stuck on preferences and what not...but the truth is...something REAL special may not always come in the perfect package...
...fellas if you know she been cheatin on you...and if you know she's a hoe/**** blah blah blah...then stop f*ckin her...
...come back later with more
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If you have any inkling that you are attracted to men, it's ok...tell us. We'll be mad at first, but, we'll get over it.
A phone call means a lot to us women, even the ones who's not really phone talkers like myself. But if calls stop, we start to wonder, especially if we used to talk everyday. If you busy and you know damn well you ain't called in about a couple of days, just call and say wassup. We ain't gotta talk for hours and abuse the hell out of Sprint to Sprint, just call and say "hello, I'm thinking about you, bye". That's it.
HONESTY is key!!!!!!! If you not feeling a girl no more, just tell her...don't see other women behind her back or avoid her. It's not worth it.
Just always remember these words of advice. Whatever you choose to do negatively in a relationship reflects on you and not your mate. If you choose to cheat, somethings wrong with you, not her. If you choose to lie about little things, somethings wrong with you. Just be honest with a girl and even leave her. Yeah, it's gonna hurt her but she'll get over it and you even made her into a stronger, smarter woman. Don't do a woman wrong and allow her to continue to be in that relationship. You're just breaking her down, especially when she finds out or knows she's being treated this way, but leaving her, knowing you ain't doing her right, we'll build her up. Think about how you would feel if your mother was in the situations you put your woman through.
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MeganJerai wrote:If you have any inkling that you are attracted to men, it's ok...tell us. We'll be mad at first, but, we'll get over it. A phone call means a lot to us women, even the ones who's not really phone talkers like myself. But if calls stop, we start to wonder, especially if we used to talk everyday. If you busy and you know damn well you ain't called in about a couple of days, just call and say wassup. We ain't gotta talk for hours and abuse the hell out of Sprint to Sprint, just call and say "hello, I'm thinking about you, bye". That's it. HONESTY is key!!!!!!! If you not feeling a girl no more, just tell her...don't see other women behind her back or avoid her. It's not worth it. Just always remember these words of advice. Whatever you choose to do negatively in a relationship reflects on you and not your mate. If you choose to cheat, somethings wrong with you, not her. If you choose to lie about little things, somethings wrong with you. Just be honest with a girl and even leave her. Yeah, it's gonna hurt her but she'll get over it and you even made her into a stronger, smarter woman. Don't do a woman wrong and allow her to continue to be in that relationship. You're just breaking her down, especially when she finds out or knows she's being treated this way, but leaving her, knowing you ain't doing her right, we'll build her up. Think about how you would feel if your mother was in the situations you put your woman through.
