If you two aren't doing anything wrong, than you are not wrong. BUT I do understand why she would be skeptical about the whole situation. I mean you two were romantically involved. She is a little silly for staying with the guy, but it is her man. If I were you I would just leave him alone.
^I think I am cause I'm sick of her calling me over some mess. Cause I'm the type of female, that if I'm done wrong it only takes one time. I can leave and let go.
You are not wrong for talking to him as long as is strictly on a friendship level. Now the girl on the other hand is either dumb for staying wit a guy who obviously does her wrong or she likes the drama, b/c otherwise there is no reason to stay with him.
Personally if i were you in that situation, I would have left him alone altogether b/c i hate liars, but to each his/her own i guess.
You are not wrong for talking to him as long as is strictly on a friendship level. Now the girl on the other hand is either dumb for staying wit a guy who obviously does her wrong or she likes the drama, b/c otherwise there is no reason to stay with him.
Personally if i were you in that situation, I would have left him alone altogether b/c i hate liars, but to each his/her own i guess.
Girl I hate liars too but I knew for a fact I wouldn't "be with" him cause I hate dumb **** females so I definetly don't want to be one.
I honestly think you both are wrong. The dude been with this girl for 13 years and engaged to her while cheating with you and you not aware of this. You find out he's been lying to you and everything else. Yea you got over it, but its totally inappropriate for you to still keep ties with dude even if it is on a friend level. ESPECIALLY considering he is still with the same woman. It would be different if she broke up with him, and you forgave him and became cordial friends. But You cant blame her for being skeptical of the 2 of you. The same girl he was cheating on her with has magically become " just a friend. " Maybe the whole thing is very innocent but it does look extremely suspect, looking on the outside it. I just think its bad for business for you to even talk to him as a friend, and on the phone after everything that has went down between the three of you.
She is dumb for staying with a dude that's doing her wrong. I don't care what ya say, she still dumb. It's too many men in the world to be stuck on one nicca that's playing your ****.
And it's not about "letting him go", I have no feelings at all for dude we just talk on the phone. And we don't even talk everyday. I mean, me and dude didn't even go out on dates. And what we had a nothing compared to what he's had with other girls. He's had physical relationships with them.
All I'm saying is, she need to stop calling me for what her man does. She thinks if she confronts different women it will stop him from cheating. To me it's like pulling the leaves instead of pulling the root.
She is dumb for staying with a dude that's doing her wrong. I don't care what ya say, she still dumb. It's too many men in the world to be stuck on one nicca that's playing your ****.
And it's not about "letting him go", I have no feelings at all for dude we just talk on the phone. And we don't even talk everyday. I mean, me and dude didn't even go out on dates. And what we had a nothing compared to what he's had with other girls. He's had physical relationships with them.
All I'm saying is, she need to stop calling me for what her man does. She thinks if she confronts different women it will stop him from cheating. To me it's like pulling the leaves instead of pulling the root.
Regardlesss of that fact that you may think she is dumb for staying with him really aint got sh*t to do with you. Thats their relatiosnhip and their business. You asked us if we think you are wrong for stayin friends with the guy and MY personal opinion is you are because you're presence is a hinderance in their relationship, and its only making things more complicated. If he is cheating, ok whatever...thats their problem to fix. But you being back in the picture doesnt help any at all. Should she be calling you confronting you Probably not. But in the end you brought that on yourself for keeping ties with a dude you were messing with that ultimately was cheating on you and his fiance with the both of u.
